Sallyjames Posted May 13, 2013 Report Share Posted May 13, 2013 I'm not sure if you guys remember me i wrote here a while ago... In a nut shel tho I met a guy really like him got on well, and then he ended it abruptly cos of his anxiety about his penis.. Not that it was ever verbalised I could just tell... So we went separate ways he ignored me 100% on any attempt of contact.... Problem is penis size was not an issue to me at all!! Anyways it's been 5 months now since I've seen him and I really want to try again and I want to contact him.... I know he wanted to be wit me but he freaked out... So boys if u have ever turned a girl away out of penis anxiety, or s potential girl, would u give her another go after 5 months? Or never wanna hear from her again?How would u like her to contact you? Ie what would u Want the msg to say? Like meet for lunch or something more intense?I really Want him to know I understand his worries without saying it if that makes sense...How should I approach him? Or will he even Want to hear from me... Thanks guys x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted May 13, 2013 Report Share Posted May 13, 2013 I would love to hear from any girl anytime but that is just me. It sounds like this man is one guy that you ought to be "friends first". Maybe he needs trust more than most prior to intimacy. I would caution against investing too much time because there is only so much you can reasonably do. Jeep 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted May 13, 2013 Report Share Posted May 13, 2013 If that were me and I was holding out because of the size of my penis I would love if the girl was just upfront that she didn't care. It would be such a relief and it would put my mind at ease. Then I could just be myself the whole time without the fear of the "big reveal" But that's just me. I don't even know how you wouldEven start to bring that up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sallyjames Posted May 13, 2013 Author Report Share Posted May 13, 2013 Do u think cos it's been so long since I've seen him if I do contact him, then that in itself shows I don't care about his size.... Cos I already know so.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Luna- Posted May 14, 2013 Report Share Posted May 14, 2013 ... if I do contact him, then that in itself shows I don't care about his size.... That's what I was thinking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sallyjames Posted May 14, 2013 Author Report Share Posted May 14, 2013 Thanks for your help! So what do I say to him? Casual or put a little but of oomph in a msg?? I really want him to give it another go... But I guess it's not really up to me is it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mutton Posted May 15, 2013 Report Share Posted May 15, 2013 I'm not sure if you guys remember me i wrote here a while ago... In a nut shel tho I met a guy really like him got on well, and then he ended it abruptly cos of his anxiety about his penis.. Not that it was ever verbalised I could just tell... So we went separate ways he ignored me 100% on any attempt of contact.... Problem is penis size was not an issue to me at all!! Anyways it's been 5 months now since I've seen him and I really want to try again and I want to contact him.... I know he wanted to be wit me but he freaked out...So boys if u have ever turned a girl away out of penis anxiety, or s potential girl, would u give her another go after 5 months? Or never wanna hear from her again?How would u like her to contact you? Ie what would u Want the msg to say? Like meet for lunch or something more intense?I really Want him to know I understand his worries without saying it if that makes sense...How should I approach him? Or will he even Want to hear from me... Thanks guys xThere needs to be more women in the world like you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted May 15, 2013 Report Share Posted May 15, 2013 There needs to be more women in the world like you.There is. There's plenty of them IMO. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carl Posted May 15, 2013 Report Share Posted May 15, 2013 But hey if it doesn't work..............well just wanted you to know that........I'm available. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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