Things might finally start to move on selling the house. Last Friday, we went back to court to get legal fees for the ex's year of appeals, and incidentally, it turns out that she wants (me) to sell the house. That's good, because my understanding was that her resistance was the only reason we weren't selling it.
So, I went to a real estate agent last Sunday, and his information is encouraging regarding the market. That means that I now have to do some hurried work to prepare the property before listing it and starting to show it. In fact, there's a chance that it could be sold by, say, the end of February!
That would be my last tie to the ex, which is great. On the other hand, there's a lot of work in the meantime, and all of it likely to need me to do it; I can't expect her to help.
But once I'm done, I could do anything I want! :-)
Now, what do I want ...