This is all I have to offer

a hug through cyberspace. its up to you if you want to accept it or not. you know I care. But I have no words.

Aw.

I guess I was trying to say that I realized that the problem isn't that people would want to support me. It's that I tend to be uncomfortable with that, and I shouldn't be.

im sorry

You know I find it difficult to find the words, coz I truely want to try help you bro, but you know that I cant. I know that I cant. Coz when I try, you pull away. probably coz I screw up and get my wording all wrong.

But know that well I think about helping, and want to help, but then think better of it, and well its the thought that counts

It's not your words, Sue. I think I just have a hard time being comforted.

Hmmm, maybe.

but it doesnt show, (honest )

Im sorry you have a hard time accepting comforting words from others, but I do hope in time that will change.

Love you Bro

I love you too, Sue.

Be safe, tonight, okay? If it gets out of hand, call someone, please.

Its kinda already gotten out of hand, im waiting for the p/doc to come get me now

shit happens though right, and I can get through this, cant I ?

You will be okay, Sue, just as long as you take steps like that to keep yourself safe.

I love you for taking such good care of yourself.

hu hu, thats a joke

well it would be really funny if it was one

hey so, have you had any luck on getting another appointment to see a therapist yet ?

Oh, so now I know my todays mistake. Once in this forum, have made a compliment (which I believe in) and that was today to you It's ok, I now know you can't accept it.

Another thought is that... I believe your answers to the posts are offering solutions, even if you don't see so. See it that way...every thought of us can be a step towards the solution. Maybe that's why I feel your posts are so wise...they offer solutions that I'd never think of (I also like solutions-that's the practicall aspect of thinking). Like another perspective to the problem discussed.

Feel free not to answer back. It's just my thoughs

I just stopped in because of the open invitation to verbally abuse you;). If only I had a really thick dictionary that would be some serious verbal abuse:). OK so I'm a smartass but you already suspected that huh?

Auto, I do try to help. I can even believe I succeed sometimes, and I don't mind being told when I do succeed. I think I find it harder when I'm struggling, to accept support the same way that I give it. It's firmly my problem, though.

And Mandy, it's specifically because you're a smartass that I like you so much. You could always sic a thesaurus on me. Or make it attack or command it to eat me or just generally point it in my direction with intent to do bodily harm ...