EternalDarkness Posted October 13, 2013 Report Share Posted October 13, 2013 I never said it was all about women's enjoyment, only that the type of relationship you described is, at its root, unhealthy and unlikely to succeed. Wouldn't you feel devastated to find out that your significant other was satisfying her urges elsewhere, and that she stuck around only for your ability to provide/service? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Notdoneyet Posted October 13, 2013 Report Share Posted October 13, 2013 I never said it was all about women's enjoyment, only that the type of relationship you described is, at its root, unhealthy and unlikely to succeed.Wouldn't you feel devastated to find out that your significant other was satisfying her urges elsewhere, and that she stuck around only for your ability to provide/service?Yes, and yes, it happened to me. I got over it and yes, I'm no longer intersted in ANY long term relationships.I do quite well by letting any ladies I plan to entertain know this from thegetgo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted October 13, 2013 Report Share Posted October 13, 2013 I think sometimes you guys are hearing each other's advice as criticism. Just because something works for one guy doesn't mean it works for everyone, and conversely, just because something didn't work for you doesn't mean that it won't work for others. My suggestion: just make your positive recommendation. It worked for you, so it may work for someone else. Then if the person you recommend it to doesn't use it, just assume that he prefers something else.The only answer I'm sure of is that there is no one right answer. ;-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted October 13, 2013 Report Share Posted October 13, 2013 I thought I was wrong once..... but then it turned out I was mistaken.... gone 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted October 14, 2013 Report Share Posted October 14, 2013 I thought I had killed a vampire once ... but he was misstaken. gone, modestman and Jessie 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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