found this ... its a neat read

[Senior penor]

http://beyondthehills.wordpress.com/2009/01/27/big-cocks-and-why-they-are-totally-stupid/

[PenisTruth]

This needs quoting,

This will also make it easier to take it all in my mouth, which makes me happy.

So I haven’t been posting. Which is Bad Blogging Etiquette. But there has been nothing to report, since I have a snowball’s chance in hell of finding someone kinky here. There is still nothing to report, so that leaves bitching about things I don’t like. And I am going to bitch about big cocks.

The big cock craze has fucking annoyed me since I was like eight years old. What? Seriously? Who decided that was a good idea? I can kind of see men getting into the big cock competition, because, sorry to say, most of the men I’ve met are fucking idiots. What pisses me off even more than guys getting into it, is the idiot women who support it. What! The! Fuck!

“It feels better,” “It’s more pleasurable,” “I can only be satisfied with a big cock.” Bullshit! There are only a large concentration of nerve endings in the first three inches of the vagina! You ain’t feeling much after that.

Oh, and let us segue into the idiotic myth of the infinitely stretchy continuum of the vagina that can somehow magically accommodate anything. Reality check: it ends. Ultimately, the vagina has a finite length. You hit the cervix, squeeze into the deep spots on the side, and you’re done. Can’t go any farther. I can only speak from personal experience, as I have not put anything up anyone else’s cunt but my own, but to tell you more about my internal proportions than you ever wanted to know, more than five inches? Impossible. Utterly. Five. Inches. Four on a sore day. Five and a quarter on a particularly stretchy day. Do you have any idea how annoying it is that the standard size for dildos is seven inches?!?!?

The only consistent result I’ve ever encountered from the big cock cult is generations of men who take out their insecurities on everybody else through anger, depression, idiotic competition, oraddictive consumerism because they’ve been conditioned to believe they’ll never pleasure anyone with their ‘mere’ seven inches. I have had man friends, intelligent, thoughtful, reasonable people, who I have confronted with documented and verifiable facts about average penis size, the nature of the vagina, and the bullshit of the big cock cult, who are so insecure about theiraverage cock or bigger than average cock that they just filter out everything I say. I just get a broken record of, “Well apparently I can’t pleasure anybody because my cock’s not big enough.” It’s that deeply embedded in their psyches. AND IT PISSES ME OFF.

Generations of men, half psychologically ruined because some asshole men said cock size matters for anything, and a bunch of asshole women decided it was a great idea to agree. As if there weren’t enough problems in the world!

I know someone is going to tell me, “Well it’s just my personal taste, and I have a right to my personal taste, so it’s okay.” Well, if your public, enthusiastic affirmation of your stereotypical personal taste is ruining half the world’s population, you need to shut up and enjoy your personal taste on your personal time instead of turning all the men I know into flinching puddles of despair. (If I like you and you have a taste for big cocks, you can be forgiven. If I don’t like you, go to hell).

Someone else is going to try to tell me that it’s related to evolution, and that men with big cocks have a better chance of reproducing, thus the competition, but there are more men with average sized cocks in this world than there are men with big cocks (thus the term ‘average’), so they’ve obviously been reproducing just fine. I don’t need eleven inches of cock rammed up my five inch vagina to get pregnant. Sperm have tails. They swim.

[by the way, I'm using gender 'man' intentionally, as I have seen how the big cock cult affects that gender, but not how it affects male people of another gender. Using 'woman' likewise.]

And if the big cock cult has this positively insane effect on men with average and bigger than average sized cocks, what the hell is it doing to the men with smaller than average cocks? What about people with micropenises? I bet it makes many of them feel like shit, a way they should not have to feel just because a bunch of assholes are so sexually uncreative that they have to make up for their lack of skill with a genetic fluke.

Another thing: Aesthetics. Mine. Personally. Let’s say a man has eight inches. Now that is scary as fuck to me, but not necessarily repellent. After eight? Sick. Gross. OW. Holy SHIT get that away from me!!!!!! AIIIGHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!! Big cocks in porn disgust me. And I really don’t get into artistic representations of impossibly large cocks that start draping places they have no right.

Now, I’m not saying it would be a deal-breaker if a person had an eight inch cock. I would accept them as a whole package, despite their horrifyingly large appendage. We would find a way. But my ideal preference? Bring on the nice, comfortable, perfectly adequate four or five inch cock.

This will also make it easier to take it all in my mouth, which makes me happy.

http://beyondthehills.wordpress.com/2009/01/27/big-cocks-and-why-they-are-totally-stupid/

[caninoespacial]

I know women who say this things when i'm sad because of my penis size. Maybe the feeling of wanting a big and wanting a normal or little one is both part of the women preferences, depends on the situation. As an example, we are not always feeling atraction just for some kind of physical trace of a woman and sometimes we do.

[dvnJ22]

"Bring on the nice, comfortable, perfectly adequate four or five inch cock."

Yeah mine isn't even 4 inches. Once again fucked over.

[Victimorthecrime]

Wow I really liked the article. It's good to know someone feels that way. I like that she has a bit of sympathy and wish her well and everyone else here too.

[Jessie]

well I could mention the girth issue being glossed over.

I could also mention the survey of 50,000 that contradict her.

BUT she writes with wit, is plausible and humane.

Im in love! and will print out this page to put on my wall….

[u.r.what.u.is]

My girlfriend has never gone on a rant like that about penis size before, but I think it expresses her sentiments exactly. She is a taller than average woman, yet she thinls my penis, which is at maximum erection between 5 and 5.5 inches long, is more than enough for her. That's why I'm convinced that guys smaller than myself have a chance.

At the very least, we should all agree that it is unnecessary to have a "porn" sized dick. The average size works better, despite our collective brainwashing from pornography.

[Victimorthecrime]

And even when it comes to guys that are extremely small, there are women that don't give a shit because they want a man for his love and support, fun times together, etc.

Not denying the valid points & evidence that has been presented that for some women size is a major consideration and you know what - they have that right. You & I may not like it but there is nothing we can do about it so why get hung up about it?

[Jessie]

and then right back with a does of reality….

"go to the bathroom and walk out" "one was less than my iphone"

and also the realisation that I have been alone for a while now… so the girls in this clip are out of my age range now anyway…

ps out of all the negatives none of the girls wanted gigantic ones, they just couldn't stand small ones.

pps one girl did say 'you might be able to look past that" (you know .. to try and ignore the pathetic inadequacy)

[u.r.what.u.is]

and then right back with a does of reality….

*scoff*

This is goofy shit. I just don't buy it. That guy was a dick himself. And hey, one woman was supposedly open to a 1" penis, which tells me that small guys can participate in the game.

[Jessie]

but didnt she then immediately contradict/correct herself?

I found the guy very irritating

[Victimorthecrime]

The guy was a total douche. Just asking "does size matter?" does not get to a valid answer because of course it "matters". Everything that exists matters. A better question would be "is size a relationship deal breaker?"

Lastly, I bet their fathers are proud! $30K/year to study schlonger.

[u.r.what.u.is]

but didnt she then immediately contradict/correct herself?

I found the guy very irritating

You may be right, as 1" is obviously extreme...I wasn't listening closely enough. But I don't trust the numbers these young women are saying. I suspect that some of them might look at a 4.5" object and call it six inches.

[Jessie]

but some of them were holding their fingers apart to demonstrate the size

And women tend to underestimate their partners size due to the fat pad at the base.

I never found unfounded optimism in the face of evidence particularly compelling.

"it was less than my iphone"

[Victimorthecrime]

I am not so sure about this base pad thing myself. Does that really add to penetration?

Again, in a free society these women are allowed their preference and I think that is a good thing as the alternative is living under Sharia Law or similar.

Does anyone really think that the majority of adult women would end a relationship w a good man because of the size of his penis? Think how hard it is for the average woman to find a guy who is not a drunk, fully employed, not a weirdo or a loser or a player or a borderline criminal but rather a solid man who says what he means & does what he says.

[Jessie]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=egeafqdQcvM

more bad news masquerading as good news.

Turns out I will never be able to provide the deepest and most fulfilling orgasms (but fuk it I new that already really)

the confirms what female poster was talking about on this forum last year.

[Jessie]

I am not so sure about this base pad thing myself. Does that really add to penetration?

Again, in a free society these women are allowed their preference and I think that is a good thing as the alternative is living under Sharia Law or similar.

Does anyone really think that the majority of adult women would end a relationship w a good man because of the size of his penis? Think how hard it is for the average woman to find a guy who is not a drunk, fully employed, not a weirdo or a loser or a player or a borderline criminal but rather a solid man who says what he means & does what he says.

during penetration the base gets pushed in.

thats why urologists measure the top side pushed right to the body

no I dont like or want Sharia law but the choice women have means no-one would willingly chose me so - its just bad luck

Well many articles and surveys show women do dump men due to size when after time they could not stand the frustration.

and many women will not enter into a relationship if they see/detect a small one.

And remember my 4 proper GFs left me due to my size.

But then I am very small- this may not apply to every guy on this site.

[Victimorthecrime]

Yeah you are right about that video, she should have just come out and said that she thinks size matters.

It's hilarious (in a dark way) that she starts off saying that "men obsess over penis size" but at the end of the video says "if it's too small to rub the cervix then that's a problem".

Her idea of matching vagina size to penis size implies that a 4" vagina would be ideally suited by a 4" penis but that assumes every position allows full penetration when that is far from the case.

Jesse, I am sure you know that a huge percentage of the "hey look at this" videos on you tube are fake and me thinks this is a small penis humiliation video disguised as sex ed.

But even if I am wrong about the video I think it is a real unfair put down to women for her to imply that women are these cock crazed cervical orgasm addicts. It is simply not true.

[gone]

I am not so sure about this base pad thing myself. Does that really add to penetration?

Again, in a free society these women are allowed their preference and I think that is a good thing as the alternative is living under Sharia Law or similar.

Does anyone really think that the majority of adult women would end a relationship w a good man because of the size of his penis? Think how hard it is for the average woman to find a guy who is not a drunk, fully employed, not a weirdo or a loser or a player or a borderline criminal but rather a solid man who says what he means & does what he says.

This is my life right now. You're right, but I'd add there's caveats. The guy has to come to terms with the simple, basic fact his wife is settling, sexually. She's trading off the best sex of her life for the best husband of her life. Sorry, but I'm competitive. I can't accept there's another guy out there who's penis gave her much more pleasure than mine. On my death bed, this'll bother me.

Every once in a blue moon her best lover and best husband might be one and the same, but I have to think more often than not an experienced woman settles when she marries. Especially if the guy is in the smallest 10%.

As marriage becomes less and less important in todays society, size and great sex stays towards the top of her importance list. We small guys tend to loose out.

[Jessie]

Victim,

I am painfully aware of SPH videos and you know what?

They are so over the top and silly they dont insult me or bother me at all.

The girls are clearly following a script for those guys who get off on humiliation.

So they are not real and I dont take them seriously.

They are pretty obvious - usually a girl in underwear saying what a pathetic little etc etc.

I am scrupulous in watching only plausible videos and I do think I am right about the last one I posted though I have no proof of that- but I really think she was trying to be helpful.

The classic 'good news but really bad news' educational video clips are Betty Dobson's (with Carlin Ross)- man alive they have no sense of irony.

[Jessie]

Retro,

on my death bed….. yep it will be with in my final minutes I'm sure of that.

The more I think of it that death bed is loping for attractive… to release from all this…

meh… lets go there…. is summer over here now… maybe I will perk up

[Victimorthecrime]

Well Jess life confronts us with choices we don't want to make: the guy who can live in a homeless shelter or take job he hates; the guy who can lose weight or lose his toes & eye sight to diabetes; the guy who can accept his flaws or be alone.

Not trying to be a dickhead here just saying that's how it is. The essence of intelligence is seeing things how they really are and then deciding your actions.

One last thing - I see and hear about some relationships these guys are in and am glad I am alone!

[gone]

Retro,

on my death bed….. yep it will be with in my final minutes I'm sure of that.

The more I think of it that death bed is loping for attractive… to release from all this…

meh… lets go there…. is summer over here now… maybe I will perk up

Isn't spring time great? I tilled my garden weeks ago. I've got tomatoes, brussel sprouts, green beans, cucumbers, potatoes, greens, onions and sweet pod peas out. I've been pulling radishes for about a week now.

My daughters graduating high school in two weeks. She's in the top ten. She's being recruited by IU, University of Evansville and Ball State. I don't think she's made up her mind yet, but she's leaning towards Ball State. Evansville would be much closer to home.

She's a 6th year Spanish student, but great grandpa and grandma said they'd room and board her for a year if she ever wanted to study Chinese as a foreign language.

It'll be a big change for us, being empty nesters. Come August we'll be moving her to an on campus dorm.

It's gonna get awfully quiet.

[dvnJ22]

I still don't know why you are married.

[gone]

I'm still married because of the kids. In a year from now I don't know if I will be or not.

I kinda wonder myself why I ever got married. She definitely deserves better. I should have listened to our friends.

If I had it to do all over again......

"One last thing - I see and hear about some relationships these guys are in and am glad I am alone!"

At times I envy you. Being alone would be better than years of a raging case of sexual inferiority.