Let's start over

[Resolute]

I actually guessed that lol. When I realised you didn't have a small penis I assumed that you were shorter than average. I'm shorter than average too.

how?

[Resolute]

I won't bore you with the deductions I made, but it was pretty clear. I was going to bring it up, but didn't want to sound presumptuous so refrained from it.

oh please bore me with the details.i'm too intrigued now.

i love to learn,and don't forget,i'm quite cerebral and intelligent.

and don't say i'm not your mum,go take a psych class or do research on google etc.

[Resolute]

Well you persist to return to a forum where you don't suffer from the collective disorder. That must make you feel good about yourself, or more paticularly, content in your masculinity.

It suggests that you need some sort of validation in your masculinity, which mean that you have an ongoing issue that dents it.

I figured it was a lack of money, looks or height. Height is the more obvious answer since the former two can be changed to some degree or another. Besides, seeing as you're in constant need to feel good it must mean that you're issue shapes your identity.

But I wouldn't be surprised if you have all three.

my problem with my height used to be a big issue,but not anymore.it still bothers me some,but definitely doesn't "dent" anything,my masculinity in particular.and i've mentioned i have financial issues in another sub-forum,but again,i don't see how that would have anything to do with my masculinity,specially since i have no one to support but myself.

the reason why i'm here so much,is because i'm jobless,lonely and bored,i also enjoy the interaction with people from around the world,and seeing other people's thinking and reasoning,and also contributing my own thoughts.

when i first joined the community,i was depressed,and that was a couple of years ago.my psychological state has been significantly better in the last year and a half.

but i can see how you would interpret it that way.

[Resolute]

So I nailed 2/3 through subjective interpretation. Nice.

i wouldn't really call it that.you completely missed the mark on the reason for my being here,which was your main goal through your "subjective reasoning".

as to my height and finances,i'd mentioned them,and if you hadn't read those posts,then i'd say it's mostly coincidence and luck (for lack of better words).

Edited September 2, 2014 by resolute

[Resolute]

How tall are you?

around 5'5",but please stop attempting to psychoanalyze me,or others for that matter.

[IrmaJean]

Unfortunately I don't have much time to respond at the moment. I do hope and believe we can all coexist peacefully here, though there will understandably be some rough patches at times. I hope everyone will decide to stay.

[retsuud]

So I want to react on this thread. It's been a long time since I posted anything on here and used to do it under a different name but I didn't think that name was safe for me anymore (paranoid;)).

I think this whole thing is getting out of hand. People insulting each other, people twisting each others words.. It's pretty pointless in my opinion and not good for this SUPPORT community. When I got on this forum a couple of months ago, I came here to share my story, hoping that some of you guys could help me out. By just listening or by giving me advice. And I had hoped that there were good discussions here and people who with a common sense of mind. Do we really need to talk about a show where people are dating nude? Do we need to talk about whether Britney Spears says she enjoys a large cock? Well, apparently we do because some people here have those things on their mind and are distracted by it. It's not my right to set out the rules for what people can be destroyed by, if I like it or not. I'm here to help a brother out. Just as I want to be helped out by you guys.

I think someone with a rather average size penis can certainly feel as bad as someone with a truly small penis. If you don't understand that, than you really have no idea how our mind works. I've been bullied, I've been ridiculed but most of all, I destroyed myself with my own thoughts and I'm still doing that. But because of my own experience It's pretty easy to know how to give advice to other people, although I can't even do certain things myself.

It is a trend here on this forum to overload our-self's with self-pity, something very normal I believe (It's something I do all day). But it's also a thing here to throw something out and after that, when people try to give advice, to just don't even try listening to that. Why are we here if we can't even listen to each other? If you just want to tell your story but don't want anyone with a different opinion to reply on that, maybe it's for the best that you say it at the beginning of the thread.

Well, I'm not really sure what I want to accomplish with this reply but I think it's important to respect each other here.

Treat others the way you want to be treated. Especially on his forum!!

Martin

[Wastedlife]

It can be done. We have evidence on this forum of men who are married, men who have children. It's not an impossible thing, but (and this may come across the wrong way) those guys do have a more upbeat attitude about life.

I've been on this board for a long time and have never heard one success story (in my opinion at least), and actually most man here in relationship or married have very depressing lives reflective of someone who has substandard penis. One thing I will admit, one type of porn that I like to watch is shemale porn (I don’t like man so I don’t consider myself gay...but whatever judge how you will I don’t care) and I got to tell you very hot shemale with big dick is much more arousing to me then hot shemale with small dick. That mechanism is same in women, small dick man can be fine (anything that seams below 5 inches is not workable imho)...but big dick is just special. ( i have had sex many times with shemales as well so i know what i'm talking about)

[mts]

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[Wastedlife]

Really? As in a person with a penis and breasts? I've watched shemale porn before too.

Yes they have implants and look like women (some look even better) but they have a penis I only see very passable shemale's (or transgender females, basically women born in the wrong body). Don't confuse them with corssdressers, (man who like to dress up as women once in a while) not my thing.

[Resolute]

( i have had sex many times with shemales as well so i know what i'm talking about)

so you enter them anally?

do they ever enter you?

you don't have to answer if you're uncomfortable.

[Wastedlife]

so you enter them anally?

do they ever enter you?

you don't have to answer if you're uncomfortable.

Well its 50/50 with me I like to top and bottom but with my small penis topping isn't that thrilling for me or them (most can fake it really well)...there trooper about though since i'm paying good money...I also like to get "penetrated" as well, and let me tell you first time you get a prostate massage while getting a blowjob at the same time you will discover a whole new world of pleasure...lol

[mts]

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[Wastedlife]

because you forget about lesbians who tend to find all dicks repulsive. But ruling them out of the equation, in a world where there's people who find taking a shit on others arousing, finding an average or small penis more arousing then a big penis isn't the weirdest thing nor the least likely.

Well I cant agree that lesbians find dicks repulsive, you see I find man repulsive but like to suck dick once in a while on a hot "chick"...so maybe they just find man repulsive? plus they do use dildos, fingers, some fists...but ok lets forget about lesbians. Obviously this isn't a white and black issue as everyone has different preference, but you have to agree ratio of man/women who find small penis more attractive then a larger penis must be astronomical...

[Wastedlife]

I remember reading somewhere on the internet about a study involving prostitutes and they didn't like a big penis because it hurt

They don't like big penises because it makes them sore and it makes their jaw sore as well if you know what i mean, and since they cant really feel small penises they can knock many more clients out that night (so I would not give this argument a thumbs up for small penis). Relationship is very different then escorts who service anywhere from 2-5 guys a day purely for money (at least the ones i see, might be more for others), women love to feel "full" by they person they love or like. Now yeah there is a thin line between "full" and pain, thats why women prefer girth over length as pain mainly comes from hitting the cervix.

and to mts:

No i would not turn down a shemale with small penis, I've seen few actually, but I can tell you that ones I had the most fun with where the ones with big or above average penis size...