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Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction (PIED)


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i have been down that road and lived to tell the story. You might have an std. I did. It was treatable and i got treated. It was horrible in the interim. I worried that i had infected my then wife, whom i was separated from, or the woman i had recently started dating.

I am also a sex addict. I had been messing around with anonymous partners (mostly men) i met online, as well as female prostitutes, gay sex clubs, and i did a gangbang of some guy's wife as well. Completely out of control shit. I had no symptoms, but i went to get tested, because it was killing me knowing what i might have.

I got a phone call from the clinic saying i had chlamydia. The shame was overwhelming. While the hiv result was still unavailable, I fantasized about suicide if i was positive. And conflicted, i also fantasized about how i could have a life of unlimited unprotected sex and debauchery with other hiv+ people if i was positive.

But i went back to the clinic and got some antibiotics and took them. I also contacted everyone i'd had sexual contact with to let them know they were exposed (except my ex wife and girlfriend of course).

So my advice is: Get tested. Find out how bad it is. Don't hide in your head and go into that abyss again (easier said than done). Have compassion for yourself. Even for the part of you that hates yourself. Even for the part of you that wants to put you back in harm's way. 12 step programs can help. Healthier outlets can help. But when your coping mechanism of choice can literally kill you, you need to change some things.

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What is your experience with Viagra and Cialis if any? I suffered from a mental block (regarding cock size, what else is new) and juiced through pretty much every relationship I've ever been in. I haven't for a long time with my current gf, but I did at the beginning. I don't think I'd be able to get past sleeping with a hooker because of the range of cocks she's seen, it'd be worse than sleeping with a random tbh, at least for me. I can't tell you to go get tested because I've never been tested myself, I'm a right shitbag when it comes to that. I've thought I had everything over the years but I've never checked. Thought I might check soon, just for peace of mind, but it's frightening, so I'll probably leave it. Only thing I'll say is, it obviously only takes one bang to catch something, but there's a really good chance you haven't caught anything. But shit does the thought of being infected tie into debauched fantasy. I've had those same fantasies. I was abused as a kid and as much as that whole thing sickens me, I've fantasised about it when I'm feeling liking an unworthy pos who deserves everything he gets. Sex can be the wrapping paper of happiness, but it also wraps misery up pretty good too. 

It'll all pan out ☮

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Klingsore. I'm sorry you're going through this man. I lost my virginity last year, to a sex worker, no condom, and my small dick refused to rise to the occasion. I didn't get any infections but yeah it's pretty messed up this thing called life.

 

I'm going to make use of a sex worker again. I have no choice. I need that pussy even if it's dirty.

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What is everyone's experience with Viagra (etc). I thought they were great. I don't use then atm but they were a life saver at one point. I'm just wondering about those guys who suffer from any form of ED. Admittedly, mine wasn't medical but more physiological, so the the tablets helped a lot. Cialis they were called (although I have tried Viagra too and they were awesome). Just thinking that if you're gonna go to a hooker, ask her if she has any. They can get all kind of shit, they're one stop shops for drugs. 

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1 hour ago, Lodz said:

Cialis worked too but it also gave me crippling low back pain after a couple days. Definitely defeats the purpose.

Weird, I didn't get that (I don't think). Because I have back pain most days so I'd probably have just summed it up to bending over funny or playing the Xbox for too long. I'll look out for that if I ever use them again. I found the Cialis worked as and when (Posh English accent) "Things became intimate" and the Viagra just pumped you up then and there no questions asked, although Viagra gave me blocked sinuses for some reason. 

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2 hours ago, Victimorthecrime said:

Anyone else ever wonder if life is just plain Satanic?  Don't mean to be a downer,just how I am feeling.  

I think South Africa is Satan's second home after the United States. The shit that goes on here is bloody unbelievable and the government doesn't give a rats ass. Hell I love my country. It's home. It's all I know and I don't like representing it in a bad way but my goodness the level of crime and the extremely violent nature of it is frightening.

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1 hour ago, Victimorthecrime said:

Anyone else ever wonder if life is just plain Satanic?  Don't mean to be a downer,just how I am feeling.  

We'd be pretty deluded to think this place works because it clearly doesn't. Even if you get the big three money/sex/success, you still get old, get jealous and die miserable. I'd say it's a pretty solid observation. We've been convinced that possessions, attributes, religion, power etc will make our life better here, but the more it changes the more it stays the same. Spinning our wheels and still depressed. I always thought of life in a body like a toddler throwing a tantrum. I want it to be all about me, it's everybody elses fault but mine, they've got what I want, love me more, where's my share? It's pretty satanic I guess, but more in a desperate way rather than an evil all powerful way. Like I'm some frightened mouse roaring at the universe. There's a ceiling with this place though, and when you hit it you have to unburden yourself from all the guilt and judgement that we throw at this shithole and just forgive it. Human life is like an old tramp shouting at pigeons for stealing his thoughts. It's clearly bananas so why waste my time on it? 

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Yahweh,

I was prescribed cialis once when I was seeing my third and final girlfriend, and it really didn't help all that much that I could tell. It gave me a headache. She was a hateful bitch and intentionally made me feel worse, but I already had porn induced erectile dysfunction (pied). There was another member here and he and I used to get tangled up often, but he was the only one who I think fully understood the reality and complications of pied. It would be incredibly easy if it were simply mechanical, but psychological ED is much more difficult to solve because you have to change your mindset and find some degree of confidence, of which I have zero in any aspect of my life. Medicine alone won't solve it. You have to feel like a man at some level to perform, and I don't, which is why I have such an attraction to something as perverse as cuckoldry. 

RE: lily Allen - That ignorant whore and her legions of rabid third wave feminist sisters can rot in hell. Isn't it amazing the number of intellectual gymnastics they will perform to prove gender is a "sociological construct" and "non-binary", yet will ALWAYS insult a man's penis when he doesn't toe the feminist line. I've been wanting to get that off my chest. 

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It is rare for a man to get AIDS from a woman.  Think about it: rock stars and athletes and movie stars plow tens of thousands of women - can you name one that got AIDS?  Magic Johnson did but that was from anal sex w a lots of women. 

There a myriad of other things you could have but they are all treatable.  

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I've lost interest in discussing penises and sexuality. SPS destroyed my sanity or perhaps I never had any. Perhaps I'm a homosexual and always have been. Perhaps I'm just one more of life's worthless turds from the asshole of America with a bevy of equally worthless opinions and thoughts. In any event, I think my warning to young men came from the right motivations and is still valid.

I wonder what happened to Jessie? I hope he's ok or found happiness. I wish sky night well too, I've come round to his point of view regarding feminists.

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9 hours ago, Pax said:

I've reassigned this thread to discuss ED in general and PIED specifically. The other topics mentioned are irrelevant. 

Could you give me a definition of porn induced erectile dysfunction and what it stems from or how it starts. I hear a lot of guys in here mentioning porn as problem point and something to avoid. 

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Hi Yahweh, 

There's stuff online you can read that explains it better than I do. Just google it. Here are some quick links though that I like:

http://www.covenanteyes.com/2015/02/27/porn-cause-erectile-dysfunction/

http://www.mensjournal.com/health-fitness/health/are-you-watching-too-much-porn-20130821

Some members swear up and down it isn't real because they've never experienced it or masturbated up to 15 times a day because of compulsive masturbation, but I'm sure they know best. There was another member here who experienced it as well named Skynight, you could probably search his old posts for more anecdotal stuff. 

To be fair, I have a host of other neuroses that together create a perfect storm, which I won't rehash. Some of my older posts under the name Klingsor are still here and you can search those if desired. I'm probably a limiting case, an asymptote. It's unlikely most guys would make it to the same point I did simply because it's unlikely that they have as many comorbid influences.

Regarding porn, if you let it take control it can become an addiction as bad or worse than any narcotic. Especially if you are unable to be intimate with real people. However, some argue that it provides an acceptable outlet for sexual frustration for introverts and losers like me who can't get the real thing. Nevertheless, I was masturbating to fantasies and summer clothing magazines long before I had access to porn, so I doubt it makes any difference in that sense, and this is why I often say it's a force for the worse. 

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