Positive story

[Perseverance]

Hey all,

I just thought of a story I haven't shared on here yet. Another post reminded me if it.

This should make people in here feel a little bit better.

Ok so me and two of my friends got a suite one night in a very nice hotel where there are tons of people. We were walking around the lobby and the restaurants and we started talking to three girls. Perfect.

We head to the bar and start bullshitting and soon enough couple shots few beers. Hey lets go up to our suite and have some drinks in the hot tub.

This story wouldn't be complete without my friends getting naked right? Oh boy here we go right?

Leaves me with no choice. Take the pants off and get in. Yet again I'm the one with the tiny dick for all the girls to see. Well guess what. No one said shit. We all had fun.

Better yet the best looking girl followed me into the bathroom. We were gonna bang until her friends banged on the door and ruined it.

Lil bit later they leave.

Me and my friends continue the party hey lets go find some other girls.

Until my buddy got a phone call from one of the girls saying her friend wanted ME to meet her friend back in their room.

Lol the 4.5 inch dick guy gets an invite back to the room. I get there and we mess around. It was fun.

And my two buddies clearly had bigger penises than me.

I was funny I know that. I didn't hide myself. I remember playing with my dick in front of them. Fuck it I didn't feel uncomfortable. I was nervous at first you can bet your ass about that. Lol showing my dick to three random girls. Holy fuck.

But look at it. My small dick didn't get made fun of and to top it off even though it was out I was still a target for a sexual encounter with a pretty good looking girl.

Comments?

[Perseverance]

Ohh by the way my dick was soft during this because of how scared I was. I had to go in the other room and fluff my shit up. Didn't really change much. They got to see even better a 2 inch soft dick. And I still got some play. Matter of fact I'm the only one who got play that night.

[Cece.dedesl]

Kudos... Standing ovation. Use that confidence in your relationship (well not exposing yourself unless your girl is into that )

Honestly... Nothing makes us happier than when you are happy. If you're a mess of insecurities, we're a mess.

[dvnJ22]

I read something positive today, an article where Sam Phillips ( former penthouse model) said that she likes small penis, she said we should be celebrated not castrated.

[Perseverance]

Awesome!

Trust me I know how easy it is to spiral out of control with this misery.

But a good experience or two should be able to show you guys there's another way. That happiness is possible.

I can easily go online and look at all the big penis propaganda. Or troll message boards where girls talk about how great big dicks are.

Or I can use my past experiences as positive motivation. Others experiences can be used as well. If you don't. Have any you have to fight to make them.

Like I've said before do whatever you can to make yourself the most attractive to a female as possible. For whatever. Casual dating or one night stands. Whatever your goal is.

This message board was heartbreaking in the beginning. I couldn't stay on here unless I did a

180.

[Cece.dedesl]

I feel like I'm becoming some of the guys here. I came here to try and understand my what my bf was going thru and find some inspiration yet I find more often than not I leave here hopeless.

It's nice to hear something positive. Thanks to you both. I really needed it tonight. Hugs....

[Girlfriend-here]

I know who'd I choose if I had a choice between men, a confident man with a smaller one anyday!!!! Rather it go into my vag not thru my cervix.

Hat off to you perserverence!! Amazing. Because your size was a non issue to you, it was a non issue to all! Hot!!!!

[Perseverance]

Nice to know I'm hot! Lol jk

But really. My small penis hasn't held me back from having wild experiences like that and I've had many. So many times I've found myself in the "holy shit what am I doing" situation and its always been a good time. I could have easily bailed out in those situations to avoid humiliation but luckily for me it never really happened. Who knows if anything is said behind my back. Maybe they talked maybe not.

[Perseverance]

I need to bump this up to ask the question. How do the rest of you guys feel about this event I described? Does it have any impact on how you feel about yourself?

Wish I'd see more comments from guys on this event that are suffering.

[Wastedlife]

I need to bump this up to ask the question. How do the rest of you guys feel about this event I described? Does it have any impact on how you feel about yourself?

Wish I'd see more comments from guys on this event that are suffering.

I think a more positive story would be “I picked up this women banged the &^$^ out of her with my 4 incher till her eyes turned white from pleasure and she begged me for more after...etc”

Your story to me is “i pulled out a flacid penis in front of some drunk women...we had a laugh and we called it a night...”

anyways that’s just how I see it.

[Perseverance]

Had a laugh?

Lol dude I'm in a hot tub with 3 girls and two other guys naked with a little dick. The girl flirted with me not them. She had no problem with my dick. She wanted to have sex. Anyways they leave after a hour or two and then I'm asked to go back to her room.

We didn't have sex because we couldn't but we still messed around. It was fun.

Based off of everything I read on here by you guys the story should have went like this.

I met 3 girls with my friends. We went up to the suite to get naked in the hot tub and have a few drinks. I pulled down my pants and the girls started laughing "omg that's a small penis hahah" then I pulled my pants up and I went down to the casino to lose all my money while my friends had a wild orgy without me.

You want another story. Here's another one lets see if this is good enough?

Since me and my buddy had two group sessions with different girls we were starting to think it was kind of easy. For a moment I was wondering if all girls were this easy and slutty. But they're not of course, we just happened to get lucky. So anyways two girls he knows come over my house. We have sex with both of them which was yet again fun and hilarious at the same time. One of the girls says something like "omg me and ___ are so lucky to fuck both of you guys at once you're both hot"

What negative can you take out of that? Neither girl was negative about my penis. It's clearly small. All three people in the room were aware. I felt confident based off the past encounters that it was going to be ok. Let me add this wasn't the only time this happened with these girls. They came back for more.

Even during the act I could tell the girls were happy with what I was dishing out.

Sorry the police didn't get called because I fucked them so good they screamed and people assumed someone was getting murdered.

[Perseverance]

By the way I don't want to come off as a man whore. I've been in relationships for almost all of my life. I had a brief period of absolute madness. I took advantage of it. I always assumed my small dick could take no part in shenanigans like that. I'm much happier being with one girl and i would be happy to only sleep with the woman I'm with now for the rest of my life. I'm glad I've been apart of those experiences. It helped me out mentally.

It's the unknown and that's the scariest thing. I stepped into the unknown and it wasn't that bad. I never went to bed crying because of rejection.

[Karezza]

I've been with two girls so tight that I could barely get a finger in there.

Incidently, one of the girls after splitting up with me tried to fuck one of my buddies who has a massive cock. Well he couldn't even get it in. He actually seemed quite upset. Haha.

[Bundy]

It's really nice that you had a positive experience Perseverance, I'm sure it's nice to have friends who are supporting of you and didn't immediately take the piss out of you for just being who you are.

To me, it really doesn't matter who had a good time and how, it really doesn't change my reality, or the reality. Once you had hundred of people laugh at you, singular events just leave no expression to you. There are so many people on this planet, you are bound to run into some girls with a open mind when you aren't scared. But again, doesn't mean anything to me, but still happy for you.

[Karezza]

Just thought that could be a positive story. There are plenty of attractive girls for you out there.

[Perseverance]

Yea well I've had plenty of shitty moments. Don't think I have never felt ridicule in my life. Don't think I haven't read shitty texts about my dick or have had guys and girls pass comments. I had my highschool sweetheart end up doing a few porn videos for the me and the world to see. What it did to me to see a past lover take huuuuuge dicks in her vagina was brutal. I couldn't believe my eyes.

Don't think I'm not hurting inside. I am.

But on the other hand I've had a few good relationships where the girl was HAPPY with me. My last GF wanted to marry me. She wanted a ring so bad. I wanted to give it to her but I was so depressed. More than I have ever been in my life. Being miserable and depressed drove her away. Not my penis. We had sex all the time. She was always dtf and was happy with me.

I'm scared to death ill lose another great girl. That's why I'm here in the first place. I refuse to go back to dwelling and being such a miserable fuck.

[Bundy]

Yea well I've had plenty of shitty moments. Don't think I have never felt ridicule in my life. Don't think I haven't read shitty texts about my dick or have had guys and girls pass comments. I had my highschool sweetheart end up doing a few porn videos for the me and the world to see. What it did to me to see a past lover take huuuuuge dicks in her vagina was brutal. I couldn't believe my eyes.

Don't think I'm not hurting inside. I am.

But on the other hand I've had a few good relationships where the girl was HAPPY with me. My last GF wanted to marry me. She wanted a ring so bad. I wanted to give it to her but I was so depressed. More than I have ever been in my life. Being miserable and depressed drove her away. Not my penis. We had sex all the time. She was always dtf and was happy with me.

I'm scared to death ill lose another great girl. That's why I'm here in the first place. I refuse to go back to dwelling and being such a miserable fuck.

I hope you don't think I insinuated that you didn't feel pain because of this, just trying to express my view. We are just complete different people, for you finding one person who would love you and want being with you is a dream, I don't even care about that. I think a reason why misunderstandings like this happen is because everybody feels that his small penis closed of a different section to them.

I read about guys who conceive themselves to be very attractive and sucessful, so while they think they might find someone, they are always going to resent that person because they feel like they've settled.

For me, the only thing that matters is social justice. The fact that small guys are culturally almost everywhere recognized as a figure of fun is what kills me, and it's nothing I can change, only how I feel about it. For you, just having a women that truly loves you and wants to be with you is remedy enogh, because you felt that a small penis can destroy your chance for true love, so it's possible to find some happiness there, that reality doesn't exist for me, because I'm so hung up with this issue.

I hope this is more understandable.

[Perseverance]

I wouldn't change a thing about my GF. She is who she is. If she had bigger breasts or a bigger ass or different hair she might be a completely different person. What she is created the girl I love. I'm not settling by any means not even close. Why can't women feel the same way?

If social justice is what you want then men have to be more vocal. I'm guilty of this myself but when something happened that hurt me I remain silent.

People just don't UNDERSTAND the mental pain we have been put through. Men literally kill themselves over this. You really think it would be as common if people knew making a terrible comment about a guys dick size would lead them

To putting a gun in thier mouth?

I really think women don't understand as well as men how hurtful this is. So in their reality it's just a cheap easy joke. It might not even be true. I've read posts where women have been surprised how much they enjoyed a smaller penis. "Never thought it was going to be any good" of course not you were told forever small penises suck.

This shit will go on forever unless something starts to be said. That's why I stated before if I'm around anyone anymore who says something messed up about small penises I'm saying something. What do I have to lose ? Let these people know what insensitive pieces of shit they are and make THEM feel bad for it.

[Bundy]

I wouldn't change a thing about my GF. She is who she is. If she had bigger breasts or a bigger ass or different hair she might be a completely different person. What she is created the girl I love. I'm not settling by any means not even close. Why can't women feel the same way?

It was just an example for something that may affect a small guy differently than us, from your posts it seems like you really love her, so I didn't think you are this kind of person anyway.

If social justice is what you want then men have to be more vocal. I'm guilty of this myself but when something happened that hurt me I remain silent.

I would rather not stand in the spotlight. I've seen how vocal guys are being treated here (my place of living, not this forum), I wouldn't be able to survive hundreds of people having laughing at me again, the first time was just too much for me, I'm a weak person, my faith in people is completely dead.

People just don't UNDERSTAND the mental pain we have been put through. Men literally kill themselves over this. You really think it would be as common if people knew making a terrible comment about a guys dick size would lead them to putting a gun in thier mouth?

You don't have to tell me, I survived a suicide attempt a few days ago, not only for this reason, but still.

And yes, I think most people know the damage that they are responsible for and don't care anyway. I've seen countless times how people mocked teenagers who killed themselves because of body shaming, I believe most people are selfish monsters, that's what the history of my country and myself led me to belief, since I'm alive humans have shown nothing but the worst to me. I'm sorry that after all I have experienced I can't be a hopeful person, but that's how it is.

I really think women don't understand as well as men how hurtful this is. So in their reality it's just a cheap easy joke. It might not even be true. I've read posts where women have been surprised how much they enjoyed a smaller penis. "Never thought it was going to be any good" of course not you were told forever small penises suck.

I agree, women are being conditioned to believe certain things in our sexist society. But to be honest, most sex I've had wasn't really enjoyable to me either, so there's that.

This shit will go on forever unless something starts to be said. That's why I stated before if I'm around anyone anymore who says something messed up about small penises I'm saying something. What do I have to lose ?Let these people know what insensitive pieces of shit they are and make THEM feel bad for it.

I've had my fair share of humiliation, I really don't want to be the center of attention about these kind of things. It's cowardly, I know, but that event when a whole school of basically 300 students laughed at me really broke whatever was left of me.

[Cece.dedesl]

Do we have to turn every positive thread into a negative? There are plenty of threads for that. Can't we leave just ONE that shows something good, a thread that shows there can be silver lining, moments of peace and acceptance?

[Jessie]

Im glad you survived Bundy (it is you isnt it?- I cant always keep track on here)

And Im sorry that 300 people acted like turds and shamed themselves and you.

But Cece wouldnt laugh at you as a woman, I wouldnt as a fellow man.

And there are things to enjoy in life, and with a bit of patience, if you wanted it, there will be someone, out there now, who would accept you.

And me too- somewhere down the line.

I damn well hate the wait- so I occupy myself in the meantime- at least I will can be selfish and indulgent- no one else to worry about but me!

[Bundy]

I'm sorry Cece, you're right, no need to make this about me again. I just saw an interest post and thought I would give my 2 cents, since Perseverance asked for opinions, this is pretty much the only place I can talk about these kind of things...maybe some kind of collective thread would be smart, where everyone posts his positive stories, gathered over multiple pages? I saw a thread like that on measurection, I think.

Thanks for the kind words Jessie

[Cece.dedesl]

It just would be nice to come here and see something positive. I've been questioning whether this site is actually helping me anymore. This thread was kind of the sun shining thru dark clouds for minute. It felt good.

[Perseverance]

Death, you said you gave up you're faith in people. But what about us. I understand that we share something in common but there's women that come on here too. They accept and love their husbands and they come on here to try and find a way to fix it. Not fix their penis either but their messed up thoughts. I think that's something to think about when you have an attitude of being unhopeful in people.

We can keep it positive in this thread. I know when i typed up those stories it made me really think about it and feel a lot better. Made me think of more positive things I've experienced. So it's definitely good to bring those things up because its so easy to go the other way and feel so terrible all the time.

If you don't have as many or any positive stories figure out small steps you can make to eventually make them. I'm sure you can find help and ideas here if you ask.

We should definitely be taking advantage of the fact women are on here more. We can all help each other.

[dvnJ22]

Here are some qoutes I try to remember that help me:

“Here is the rule to remember in the future, When anything tempts you to be bitter: not, ''This is a misfortune'' but ''To bear this worthily is good fortune.''”

- Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

"However mean you life is, meet it and live it; do not shun it and call it hard names. It is not so bad as you are. It looks poorest when you are richest. The fault finder will find faults even in paradise. Love your life, poor as it is. You may perhaps have some pleasant, thrilling, glorious hours, even in a poor house." Henry David Thoreau, walden

When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That's the message he is sending.”

― Thich Nhat Hanh

“To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.”

― Thich Nhat Hanh