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Victimorthecrime Posted September 22, 2013 Report Share Posted September 22, 2013 From what I have read you will see a gain but I have no clue how much. Make sure you consult w a doctor before starting an exercise program; sometimes they want you to lose weight first. Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted September 22, 2013 Report Share Posted September 22, 2013 I would say its pretty easy to figure out. I'd take a ruler and measure with it pressed into your fat pad. Whatever the number is minus a half inch. I'd say that's the realistic size you would get if you lost a lot of weight. Wouldn't be surprised if you have at least two inches maybe a little more under all that fat. I know when I dropped 45 pounds I gained a little bit. Also felt a million times better about myself. But definitely go see a doctor. Instead if taking advice from us. Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Jessie Posted September 23, 2013 Report Share Posted September 23, 2013 whilst 4 inches might still be technically inadequate for most women even a depressive like me can see that 4 is better than 2.5.You never know you might end up at 4.5 if you lose the weight - worth trying I think!May I enquire what your girth is?- thats not affected by gut size. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esruc Posted September 23, 2013 Author Report Share Posted September 23, 2013 You never know you might end up at 4.5 if you lose the weight - worth trying I think!No it isn't. It's not big enough. I'll never have sex, because if I did, the first person would have to love it. If they laughed and made any remark about it I would kill them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted September 23, 2013 Report Share Posted September 23, 2013 Well thats why I asked about your girth because most research says thats more important to girls than length (though I accept some girls feel differently).If you feel you are in danger of killing someone maybe its best you don't date for a while though- not sure.I do understand where the anger comes from- the humiliation and rage etc - but if you think this might end in violence you might need to talk to an expert.I am very small and of the 5 girls I have been intimate with none have laughed in my face- but I did carefully select them as good people- guys like us have to be very choosy.My best advice is get slim and see what happens- but best of luck anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted September 23, 2013 Report Share Posted September 23, 2013 Es, can you see that you're doing a "bait and switch" on yourself?First the question was whether you would be bigger if you lost weight, but when someone says "yes", it becomes "the first person would have to love it. If they laughed and made any remark about it I would kill them." Even then, there's a huge range between loving it and laughing at it, and I would bet you that most men, no matter who they are, get a result somewhere in that range, most times they have sex. You're sort of setting it up as an all or nothing situation, and then because "all" is too unlikely, keeping it at "nothing". Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esruc Posted September 24, 2013 Author Report Share Posted September 24, 2013 Well thats why I asked about your girth because most research says thats more important to girls than length (though I accept some girls feel differently).If you feel you are in danger of killing someone maybe its best you don't date for a while though- not sure.I do understand where the anger comes from- the humiliation and rage etc - but if you think this might end in violence you might need to talk to an expert.I am very small and of the 5 girls I have been intimate with none have laughed in my face- but I did carefully select them as good people- guys like us have to be very choosy.My best advice is get slim and see what happens- but best of luck anyway.My girth is about 1.5 inches.Of course I won't date for a while-I'll never date.I don't need to talk to a therapist. They can't make my dick bigger. I just won't show it to anyone. And if anyone sees it laughs, they die. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeep Posted September 24, 2013 Report Share Posted September 24, 2013 . Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esruc Posted September 24, 2013 Author Report Share Posted September 24, 2013 I would kill myself if it happened, why should I let them live? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted September 25, 2013 Report Share Posted September 25, 2013 ok- well its at the lower end of average but not super skinny- bigger then mine.I think you could find a nice girl that would accept that size-Dont go to bars or pick up or go with girls in revealing clothing.You need to be selective about partners for sure.Good luck- pick carefully and be a nice guy, Jeep 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Esruc Posted September 25, 2013 Author Report Share Posted September 25, 2013 It would be their laughing that kills me. They chose their own fate when they decided to mock me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted September 25, 2013 Report Share Posted September 25, 2013 Well not quite Esruc.They might laugh 'automatically' as a natural response to seeing something they are not used to.They may be drunk.They may be going through a shallow phase' of not being very emphatic.They would not be ACTIVELY CHOOSING to die.And you know this perfectly well.I know your pain- I live it most days and I have had the darkest of thoughts tooBut neither of us has the right to perform the most heinous of acts just cos we got unlucky with the gene handouts.ps a couple of my partners blurted things out when they saw it- but they were lovely, kind, decent people.They dont understand our pain and can sometimes be a bit clumsy when discussing the difficulties this issue bringsTake it easy Esruc... J Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esruc Posted September 26, 2013 Author Report Share Posted September 26, 2013 " They might laugh 'automatically' as a natural response to seeing something they are not used to."Well then, I might 'automatically' slit their throat as a natural response to them laughing."They may be going through a shallow phase' of not being very emphatic."Shame they won't live to grow out of it." They would not be ACTIVELY CHOOSING to die."People who drink and drive don't actively choose to die, but they take that risk."They dont understand our pain"I would make them understand, even if it means inflicting it on them.Maybe I wouldn't kill them. That would be too easy for them. Too quick. Why should they only suffer a few minutes? I would disfigure them instead. Slice up their genitals. Make them hideous. A freak, and unlovable, like me. I hope they would feel shame and not want to show it to anyone. I hope it makes them distant and fearful of intimacy, fearful of judgement. I want it to plauge their life for years, decades even. And, if they do finally build the courage to trust someone enough to be intimant, I hope their partner reacts the same way they reacted to me, and they kill themselves. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted September 26, 2013 Report Share Posted September 26, 2013 Esruc, I hear that you feel angry frustrated and hurt. If you are feeling violent, I hope you will get some professional help. Jessie and u.r.what.u.is 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EternalDarkness Posted September 26, 2013 Report Share Posted September 26, 2013 Esruc, it is likely that you have very poor circulation due to you being quite overweight. It's possible that if you get down to a healthy weight, the increase in erection quality combined with the loss of your "fat pad", you will have more length than you thought. Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted September 26, 2013 Report Share Posted September 26, 2013 " They might laugh 'automatically' as a natural response to seeing something they are not used to."Well then, I might 'automatically' slit their throat as a natural response to them laughing."They may be going through a shallow phase' of not being very emphatic."Shame they won't live to grow out of it." They would not be ACTIVELY CHOOSING to die."People who drink and drive don't actively choose to die, but they take that risk."They dont understand our pain"I would make them understand, even if it means inflicting it on them.Maybe I wouldn't kill them. That would be too easy for them. Too quick. Why should they only suffer a few minutes? I would disfigure them instead. Slice up their genitals. Make them hideous. A freak, and unlovable, like me. I hope they would feel shame and not want to show it to anyone. I hope it makes them distant and fearful of intimacy, fearful of judgement. I want it to plauge their life for years, decades even. And, if they do finally build the courage to trust someone enough to be intimant, I hope their partner reacts the same way they reacted to me, and they kill themselves.- only if you carry a knife which I hope you don't. And even you did have a knife for some reason it's far from an auto response to slit a throat which would be a murderous and evil thing to do.- yes it would be a shame, they could have had great, fulfilling, giving life.- but they are not taking that risk. No one could possibly conceive that an involuntary giggle or ill considered comment result in murder.- we have no right to do that. Anymore than an AIDS sufferer could inject you with his virus cos he was jealous and resentful of your health.- at some point their lives people will know tragedy, ill health, heart break, rejection. No matter how pretty or well endowed or rich they are. You have no right to disfigure others- that would be so vindictive and cruel.- you are already thicker than me. Lose weight and you will probably be longer too. You will be able to get and keep a girl. But you need to let go of this rage. Make the best of what you have and try to count your blessings. You are articulate in written form- this suggests intellect which is a plus for lots of girls. u.r.what.u.is 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esruc Posted September 26, 2013 Author Report Share Posted September 26, 2013 Instead of responding to everything you said, I'll just say no. They laugh at my penis, they die. No debating it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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