DatDude90 Posted September 13, 2014 Report Share Posted September 13, 2014 I know every girl/women has a different opinion, and this question is probably best to ask to females anyway. But, I would like to know what you guys think from your experience. I'm 20, and have never been in a relationship, and I'm pretty much avoiding it at this point.Also, how do you cope with your size? I'm really insecure and depressed because of mine. Any advice/feedback is much appreciated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
someone555 Posted September 14, 2014 Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 Every girl is different so it's impossible to say. Girth is more important than length. But anything 4x4 and higher should be fine with most girls. Under that and some girls may not find it the best, but that's where it comes in handy to be good with your mouth and fingers (my nickname is fastest fingers in the west, no joke)As for how I cope, I openly joke about it with friends. And most times before bangin a chick I subtly let them know that I'm not packing much. Of course on the inside I'm still depressed, but it helps (though it doesn't help that all my close friends are above average size) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted September 14, 2014 Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 Every girl is different so it's impossible to say. Girth is more important than length. But anything 4x4 and higher should be fine with most girls. Under that and some girls may not find it the best, but that's where it comes in handy to be good with your mouth and fingers (my nickname is fastest fingers in the west, no joke)As for how I cope, I openly joke about it with friends. And most times before bangin a chick I subtly let them know that I'm not packing much.Of course on the inside I'm still depressed, but it helps (though it doesn't help that all my close friends are above average size)i've been here long enough to know that most guys here would disagree with those figures. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted September 14, 2014 Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 of course.. those figures are way off…a v large survey showed 16% of women unhappy with their partners sizeand thats exactly the % of guys who are small- what a surprise.NBP white average erect is 5.5 x 5 with ranges (5-6) x (4.7-5.3) (this gives the 68% in the middle)so any guy less than 5L or less than 4.7W is too small.4x4 is volume wise much less than 5x4.7. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DatDude90 Posted September 14, 2014 Author Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 of course.. those figures are way off…a v large survey showed 16% of women unhappy with their partners sizeand thats exactly the % of guys who are small- what a surprise.NBP white average erect is 5.5 x 5 with ranges (5-6) x (4.7-5.3) (this gives the 68% in the middle)so any guy less than 5L or less than 4.7W is too small.4x4 is volume wise much less than 5x4.7. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DatDude90 Posted September 14, 2014 Author Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 Sorry, still trying to figure out how to reply to other posts directly. But I agree Jessie, those numbers seem about right. My problem is, although I fall into the average statistically, it seems most women want something 6-7 inches. I do realise in the long run, plenty of women fall for guys who do not meet their preferences. But just that reality of never being the "ideal size" or even a good size, is really depressing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DatDude90 Posted September 14, 2014 Author Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 Yeah, for the most part they usually just base their preference off visual estimation, at least that's what I assume. It still does a number on my self esteem to hear some of the numbers they throw around. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
retsuud Posted September 14, 2014 Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 Sorry, still trying to figure out how to reply to other posts directly. But I agree Jessie, those numbers seem about right. My problem is, although I fall into the average statistically, it seems most women want something 6-7 inches. I do realise in the long run, plenty of women fall for guys who do not meet their preferences. But just that reality of never being the "ideal size" or even a good size, is really depressing.You shouldn't pay to much attention to what you think most women want, but rather on what you think you can offer to a girl. Confidence is a major turn on I believe. If you're an average guy you really don't have much to worry about. Sure some girls will think that you're small, but other girls will think that you're big. It's just a matter of perspective and experience.Are there other things, except the size of your penis, that make you insecure around women? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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u.r.what.u.is Posted September 14, 2014 Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 I openly joke about it with friends. And most times before bangin a chick I subtly let them know that I'm not packing much. We're all different, and maybe that helps you, but I believe that if you're at least average in size, the best thing is to act as if you have no idea whether anyone in the world is larger or smaller than you. So, don't event hint to a woman that you're not packing what you think she "really" wants. When it is time for sex, just go for it. Be attentive to her, enjoy foreplay, and then give her your average bratwurst. I have done this to women who have been with big kielbasa before, and they preferred sex with me.All the fear and depression I had is put to rest. Wish I woke up to this reality much earlier in my life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Klingsor Posted September 14, 2014 Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 I agree. There are some people (such as the guy alluded to in my earlier post above) who are insecure even though they are actually well above average size! And I think this insecurity communicates itself to women in all sorts of subtle ways - even if it remains unspoken.And let's be honest: there are probably some guys in the world who are simply rubbish in bed - and would be even if they had a porn-sized penis! There are some guys who are always going to be more or less unattractive to women for a whole variety of reasons. Penis size is always only one part of the equation, in my opinion.I agree. IMHO, the unspoken assumption being that you possess enough arrogance to pretend as though you aren't insecure regardless of reality. Got a small dick, no problem, ACT like you don't. Got a wart on your face, no problem, ACT like you don't. Do your fingernails slough off when you eat boiled eggs, no problem, ACT like you don't. Does your face make people wonder if your mother was raped by a pug? No problem, ACT like she wasn't. Are you a conceited, arrogant asshole who has never had to deal with anything more stressful than sidestepping a pile of dog shit on the sidewalk on your way to the polo field? Great! Be yourself!If you cannot play the GAME that is sexual dynamics, that is, if you are unable to LIE about what you have to offer and don't have the ability ponce around and pretend you are "all that and much, much more" because you have a pretty face and wear Abercrombie, well then you're just this:Organ grinderan effeminate and sexually repulsive white male seen publicly with a simian Indian gf. Nearly all organ grinders have an ambiguous eunuch-like appearance which has caused them to continuously fail in social competition for a beautiful or sexy girl... until one day they accept their limitations and an aboriginal East Indian gf.These guys are commonly very weak-willed and have yet to outgrow the "mama's boy" stage. Thus, their need to be cared for by a female is sostrong that they will mate with an anthropoidwoman because it means having someone to cling onto.I wish I had said something about Steve's lowself-esteem issues earlier on because that could have prevented him from becoming an organ grinder by settling for Priya. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted September 14, 2014 Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 @SkynightThe guy in this documentary felt so bad about himself he was even willing to pay big time to have himself cut about! I find it almost incredible that anyone who is already above average would go to those lengths. (Or, indeed, to those girths!)lol,to those girths,good one,roger. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted September 14, 2014 Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 under a surgeon's knife, have fat cells taken from his buttocks and injected into his penis! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted September 14, 2014 Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 Never Mind the Bullocks! Leave your Sex Pistol alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DatDude90 Posted September 14, 2014 Author Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 You shouldn't pay to much attention to what you think most women want, but rather on what you think you can offer to a girl. Confidence is a major turn on I believe. If you're an average guy you really don't have much to worry about. Sure some girls will think that you're small, but other girls will think that you're big. It's just a matter of perspective and experience.Are there other things, except the size of your penis, that make you insecure around women?Actually, That's really my only insecurity. I don't have a problem around women, I mean I'm no silver tongue devil, but I don't have a problem having a conversation. It's just getting intimate where I fold like a tent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted September 14, 2014 Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 Actually, That's really my only insecurity. I don't have a problem around women, I mean I'm no silver tongue devil, but I don't have a problem having a conversation. It's just getting intimate where I fold like a tent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted September 14, 2014 Report Share Posted September 14, 2014 There used to be a guy here Perseverance that said essentially the same thing. He was confident in athletic, intellectual, and good looks evaluations but the size thing tripped him up at tines even though his girlfriend was dismissive of that particular concern. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted September 17, 2014 Report Share Posted September 17, 2014 There used to be a guy here Perseverance that said essentially the same thing. He was confident in athletic, intellectual, and good looks evaluations but the size thing tripped him up at tines even though his girlfriend was dismissive of that particular concern.Who dare summons the great Perseverance!? Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted September 17, 2014 Report Share Posted September 17, 2014 Who dare summons the great Perseverance!?do you grant wishes? if so,how many? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted September 17, 2014 Report Share Posted September 17, 2014 do you grant wishes? if so,how many?Nope. I'm just a great guy :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted September 17, 2014 Report Share Posted September 17, 2014 I know every girl/women has a different opinion, and this question is probably best to ask to females anyway. But, I would like to know what you guys think from your experience. I'm 20, and have never been in a relationship, and I'm pretty much avoiding it at this point.Also, how do you cope with your size? I'm really insecure and depressed because of mine. Any advice/feedback is much appreciated.I'm 4.75 x 4.75 and I get by. I've come to the conclusion I have a mental problem. I have never had a problem getting pussy but I obsess over trying to be a girls number one lay. Being this size is probably always going to suck but what I've put myself through over the years is literally killing me. Dude, don't avoid relationships. Be up front and own what you have. That's your only shot. Obviously you have to be smart where you meet girls but really thats for you to learn. Chances are if you're actually small you're prob going to have to deal with some shitty experiences, but through my experiences there are actually good women out there. This shit just gets old. I'm never going to be 'happy' with what I have but im caring less and less. I'm to the point where i'm about to tell my GF if she ever feels like shes missing something to go bang another guy. I really dont care, im tired of feeing guilty. If she doesnt ever want to take my offer then fine. We have a good relationship, we do everything together and have a lot of fun. Society sucks too, theres not a whole lot you can do to change it. Just try and surround yourself with good people.Personally i'm worn out and I don't know how you guys still do it.My advice... Try and enjoy what you have the best you can, don't suppress your urges, smoke a bowl and chill the fuck out. In fact, meet a girl who does smoke weed or even is into lsd. These people are less likely to be shitty people and are more accepting... Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Resolute Posted September 17, 2014 Report Share Posted September 17, 2014 My advice... Try and enjoy what you have the best you can, don't suppress your urges, smoke a bowl and chill the fuck out. In fact, meet a girl who does smoke weed or even is into lsd. These people are less likely to be shitty people and are more accepting...i really don't wanna make you feel unwelcome after your long absence,but this is just really bad advice bro.what's wrong with suppressing urges,if one must?and smoking weed? really?finding a chick who smokes weed? or lsd? are you on crack,lol? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mts Posted September 17, 2014 Report Share Posted September 17, 2014 - Perseverance 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted September 17, 2014 Report Share Posted September 17, 2014 I think he means find a woman that is easy going, open minded and not too judgemental. Well that's my intepretation, anyway.i don't think that's what he meant,but even if it is,believe me,you still don't want a hippie woman. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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