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After reading about the importance of confidence and experience in overcoming SP/SPS I'm seriously contemplating paying a prostitute for regular sex. I'm hoping that gradually I'll develop the requisite skills and maybe become comfortable in the bedroom. Has anyone here made a similarly concerted effort (with a hooker) in the past? If so, how did it go (why did it fail?). If no one has tried it, why not?

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I have no direct experience, but I'm guessing that "regular sex" with a prostitute could get expensive.

Plus, a lot of prostitutes are deficient in hygiene and life skills.

A local judge, speaking to a group of men arrested for soliciting a policewoman posing as a prostitute, said as follows:

"If she has all her teeth, she's a cop."

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Prostitutes use condoms. Public health authorities don't regard U.S. prostitutes as a major vector for STDs.

If I were considering this, I'd be much more concerned about the criminal justice implications than possible disease.

Yeah but the mouth and fingers can also be entry points for infectious disease. Just sayin...

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Yeah but the mouth and fingers can also be entry points for infectious disease. Just sayin...

True, but (absent open sores) orders of magnitude less likely.

Interesting fact: under typical Western world conditions, if an HIV-positive man has unprotected penis-in-vagina sex, just once, with a woman of childbearing age, the chances of getting her pregnant are roughly 100 times the chances of her getting infected with HIV.

Obviously if they KEEP having sex, the chances of transmitting HIV will accumulate to a larger number. And other STDs are more contagious than HIV.

This doesn't apply in the much less healthy Third World, where sores from skin diseases and insect bites and such are commonplace, and EVERY kind of STD is more contagious.

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I frequent prostitutes, I doesn't help me feel better about my small penis in anyways. But its a relief as i can have sex with very hot women and do kinky shit i always wanted to do without having to worry about being criticized or just stressing...Its fun that's all, if you expect it to help you with social skills around women or to feel better about your penis seize you might be in for a surprise. ( I use Viagra for performance anxiety and to make sure i get my times worth)

(if you are considering escorts make sure you do your research online, I would recommend a independent escort with good reviews)

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Well, I thougth the same.

In my 22´s, An older friend persuaded me to lost my virginity with a prostitute. He said that with a prostitute all the issues about penis size or how to satisfy a girl during sex disappear.

I´m 26, but for my history is better for me to write in present:

I go to the particular prostitute. With nervous, thinking about is that i´m doing is correct or not, etc. The experience: only an erection about 3 minutes in total and the ejaculation in 5 minutes...with the prostitute asking me "What, are you finish?". Because the erection problems, one comdon falls in the woman vagina and I didn´t notice how many time I was having unprotected sex...and then becomes my hell.

3 days later...fieber, red areas in my hands, pain in my back, white tongue. I read all the information in Internet, and that was the awful experience in my life. I was thinking about HIV, Hepatitis or a rare virus. The problem is that the blood test need time, so, I have to wait 3 months to have my first blood test, with 15 days to have the results...and my mental health was terrible. The diagnosis...Epstein-Barr Mononucleosis...I have no girlfriend so a totally normal virus that 90% of Earth population had was new for me. And in adults is a pain in the ass the EPstein primoinfection...and the doctor said to me, yeah, but in 6 months you need another test because HIV is a mononucleosis too...so I can´t confirm that you are safe with that. LOL.

Finally, I had 5 sexual encounters with two prostitutes. And I think all my problems were in my mind, the lack of selfconfidence. Sex is a game, and the porn is really a disgusting thing in sexual life (the size is not real, not only with man, with girl too, the time with the erection it´s not real, normally they use viagra or others, and with a normal girl, no matters size, if you go direct to the penetration it´s imposible to pleasure, the first orgasm and in many times the only is with oral and finger stimulation)

Sorry por the post :rolleyes:

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Lol they ignored my comment so I felt no need for it to be there any longer...

Honestly you gotta be careful about doing that. If you watch the "members online" footer you'll see that for every one or two of us that post here regularly there are quite a few unnamed visitors. There are a lot of people, more than the community here, that suffer from SPS. It's huge...umm....no pun.

So be careful, just because nobody responded to it right away doesn't mean it wasn't a significant contribution to the conversation. Something you say may ring with somebody else without you knowing..... As far as I know this is the only SPS forum on the 'net and I place a great value of these exchanges, the interactions, the ideas and experiences we share. No-Homo...but guys I think we're pretty spectacular for what we're able to talk about with each other. We may not live to see it but we are the beginning of a social revolution. One day we'll be recognized.

Well, I thougth the same.

I´m 26, but for my history is better for me to write in present:

I go to the particular prostitute. With nervous, thinking about is that i´m doing is correct or not, etc.

...and my mental health was terrible. The diagnosis...Epstein-Barr Mononucleosis...in 6 months you need another test because HIV is a mononucleosis too...so I can´t confirm that you are safe with that. LOL.

Sorry por the post :rolleyes:

Brother, this is one of the best posts on this forum I've read in a long time. That's a great story, hilarious. I'm not laughing at you, I'm laughing with you at the HIV scare. LOL!

Agree about the money but I have to be honest if I could do over again I would have gone to more prostitutes when I was in my 20s. Some of my fondest memories are of those women disrobing and me getting on them like an animal.

You know I've never done it, never hired a prostitute. I want to, I go on backpage and look at the ads. I'm just too shy. I'd be the asshole that pays for an hour so I can spend the first 15 minutes talking trying to "get to know her" a little bit. I feel like I need to click emotionally at least a little bit to have sex. And what if she makes me laugh, fucks my brains out, then what? I'm gonna end up giving her all my money or try to ask her out on a date or something just gawdawful like that. I want to so bad but I'm a little scared of the outcome. heh heh heh...prostitutes make outcomes. huh huh huh

But really man, that does sound fun.

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Agree about the money but I have to be honest if I could do over again I would have gone to more prostitutes when I was in my 20s. Some of my fondest memories are of those women disrobing and me getting on them like an animal.

I question myself again and again whether I could do this.

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