i don't think the owner of the goldfishes i'm babysitting is gonna come back for them... if she doesn't i'll rename them.

Isn't it relaxing to watch fish? I love that.

Will they have to wear name tags, at first, so they know which one they are?

thankyouuuuuuuuuuu!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i've been sitting here talking to the fish for the last hour i was so lonely but they don't talk back...

yeah it is and i think they like me coz them keep making kissing faces at me!!

they're the same colour but one is a little bigger than the other so i can tell them apart.

the water they're in is really dirty though and i dunno whether to clean it or not coz they're not mine.

You weren't speaking to them in fish, obviously. :-)

Though you are clearly attractive to them. Now, why do guys get slapped if they make that same face to a girl?

Mmm, there shouldn't be stuff visibly floating around, if it has been a while since they ate. Talk to 'finding', she's an expert on fish care.

obviously not!! i was never taught how to speak fish in school |

yeah there is stuff visibly floating around.. i don't like cleaning fish bowls though coz it freaks me out.. i used to have to do it when i was small. i had a lot of fish trouble when i was small..

hitch and cock are really cute though and they have a spongebob toy at the bottom of their bowl!!

Mmm, if it's just a fishbowl and not a tank, that makes it more important to clean it often. When is their owner expected to take them back?

It isn't an easy or fun job, I agree. Though you wouldn't be so bored ... You could get to play with SpongeBob! :-)

Okay, maybe I didn't manage to talk you into it ...

she was supposed to take them back monday morning but she didn't.

she came up to me in college on monday though and asked how they were and if i would be their fairy godmother. and i said yes. so maybe that means she's not coming back for them...

i gotta go pick someone up from college but i'll be back soon.

You're a fairy godparent, too! :-)

You need a tank-cleaning wand ...

why come people always take advantage of me?

tonight is going to be a horribly long and depressing night. maybe i'll get drunk. on my own.

blah blah blah :mad:

blossom is fed upppppppp.

Would Blossom like to talk about it?

Getting drunk is one way to handle it. You get to choose whether you need that or not.

she's really tired but she shouldn't be coz she went to bed early last night and slept for half of today.

no i just want to know the answer that's all.

great now the other 2 are home.

heyy blossom

people take advatage cause they can.

you have to try to not let them.

easier said than done, unfortunately

hey starry. yeah but why does it always happen to me?

There are lots of possibilities.

Maybe people take advantage of you because you let them? That sometimes happens.

Maybe people take advantage of you because you haven't decided yet to only hang around with nice ones.

Maybe people take advantage of you because many of them are jerks. So, why do you feel bad?

I don't know blossom, happens to me too.

I think it is sort of a not wanting to say no, not wanting people to get mad, wanting them to like you, things like that

ok thanks.

I would suggest that a tendency to get mad at yourself instead of them is a part of it ...

Did you tell the person to stop doing it?

no.................

Sweety, can you describe what happened?

Maybe it will help you find other ways to handle it.

i don't want to describe what happened.

i just wanted to know why people always take advantage of me and ye gave me the answer so now it's fine.

I only gave you a list of maybe's.

Did you hear them as blaming you? That wasn't how they were meant.

I was just trying to help you protect yourself more next time.