Compliments

[Griz]

Hey guys, what kind of compliments have you gotten from people before? 

Doesn't have to be penis related. Anything. 

But if you got a compliant on your cock, what was it?

[YOTH]

The absolute ceiling of sexual compliments for me has been a few "That was good". Would I have liked just one "that was amazing!" (?) Yeh, probably, but I'll take what I can get. Although, I was doing my gf doggy whilst putting a buttplug up her arse and she said that was amazing, but I took an assist on that one and gave the achievement to the plug. 

[jackbolin]

I dated this girl once for almost a year. It certainly wasn't love that kept us together. We broke up several times during that year, but she'd always show back up at my door. One time I asked her "why do you keep coming back? we obviously don't get along"....and she said "I miss the sex". 

[Helpless_loner]

I've been told I'm "handsome" and that I could "date any normal girl I want". Oh boy, little do they know about my problem.....Never had sex in my life and I don't think that is going to change anytime soon..

[u.r.what.u.is]

My penis is highly prized by my partner, and as such, gets daily praise.  She has experience with other dicks probably 80% larger and she still goes crazy for my dick (not just for me as a person, but for my dick...I guess it's unfortunate how important that feels).  This has changed my life.

[jackbolin]

31 minutes ago, u.r.what.u.is said:

My penis is highly prized by my partner, and as such, gets daily praise.  She has experience with other dicks probably 80% larger and she still goes crazy for my dick (not just for me as a person, but for my dick...I guess it's unfortunate how important that feels).  This has changed my life.

You are indeed a lucky man u.r......

 

[Griz]

Same goes for me u.r. My SO goes crazy for my penis. I am not used to it at all as my ex wasn't like that. She constantly stares at me. Sometimes i actually get annoyed cause sometimes I'm wanting to have a serious conversation with her and she gawks. She's been with bigger and smaller but loves sex with me. Even though we don't have much sex at all. That's another issue with me. But she absolutely loves the sex. I've never had complaints about my performance. 

[Small]

Wow. You guys are quite certainly studs.

[Obsolete]

Nice eyes.

[u.r.what.u.is]

9 hours ago, jackbolin said:

You are indeed a lucky man u.r......

 

I'm trying to determine how helpful it's been to share it.  I've told my success story several times.  I think it can happen to almost any of us, and I like to think my attitude helped, but maybe it is all just good luck.

[Helpless_loner]

The main root of my whole thing here is the fact I just cannot believe somebody will be sexually attracted to me AFTER intimacy. You know, at first I gave up the idea of affairs and one night stands. Eventually I began to think that not even the most in loved girl in the world could overcome my problem.

[Griz]

@Helpless_loner you never know. My current gf has helped me through things. Just have to find the right person. Which I know, is easier said then done. But she has helped me through a few things since we have been together 

[YOTH]

@Griz It's near impossible to reassure guys that good women are out there. I wouldn't have believed it myself had someone tried to tell me. But not all women are fucked in the head. Well, they are all fucked in the head, they're women, but some aren't cruel bitches. 

[Helpless_loner]

3 hours ago, YOTH said:

@Griz It's near impossible to reassure guys that good women are out there. I wouldn't have believed it myself had someone tried to tell me. But not all women are fucked in the head. Well, they are all fucked in the head, they're women, but some aren't cruel bitches. 

I don't think is about women being "bad" or "good". I mean, there's "bad" women that  make fun of us publicly because our condition, like the ones at the cafeteria of my job that day, those are certainly b"·$$"ches.

 

It's just a matter of preference. See, I do have them too in regards of women that I would be with if I could and the rest I wouldn't. Our problem is we just cannot fix that which bring us here, as "simple" as that.  If a person is overweight/underweight  (sure is hard as HELL) can overcome it through diet and hard working exercise or even a lypo/by-pass surgery. If a woman is not happy with her breasts (again, not exactly easy unless somebody pays for it) can have a surgery. Heck even the individuals ho feel they were born in the wrong body can change their genitals and become a new person and yet there is no 100% proven method that can help us. There's no surgery, no exercise ( I'll begin jelqing  next week)  no pills, no nothing.....

We just have to "accept" ourselves and "move on".

[YOTH]

@Helpless_loner If you're starting to jelq, then you still have hope in a cure. I'm still waiting for them to grow me a knob in a lab and graft the fucker on. Surely they've figured something out half way decent? They've had tit jobs for years and all they can do to your cock is circumcise it and pump it full of arse fat. We should be picking them from a catalogue by now. They can fake putting a man on the moon but they can't graft me on a fake cock! Lazy bastards...

[Helpless_loner]

I'm no doctor myself, but whole puberty thing is triggered by hormones....

Is it THAT hard to hit the right buttons have the fellow down there to grow??? I mean, doctors can make a man grow women like breasts.. Geez =(

[Klingsor]

On June 5, 2017 at 6:35 AM, u.r.what.u.is said:

I'm trying to determine how helpful it's been to share it.  I've told my success story several times.  I think it can happen to almost any of us, and I like to think my attitude helped, but maybe it is all just good luck.

I may have asked you this before, but exactly how long did it take of actively not masturbating or looking at porn to correct your ED problems? I'm trying very hard to stop. I just want to know how long it will take before my penis becomes functional again without the need for mastirbation or excessive porn.

[Lodz]

"You sure know how to use it."

[LostBoy]

"It's not THAT small" after asking an old girlfriend her opinion about my size.

This is the closest thing to a compliment that I can recall.

[u.r.what.u.is]

On 11/14/2017 at 11:50 AM, Klingsor said:

I may have asked you this before, but exactly how long did it take of actively not masturbating or looking at porn to correct your ED problems? I'm trying very hard to stop. I just want to know how long it will take before my penis becomes functional again without the need for mastirbation or excessive porn.

Sorry for the delay, but I was offline for a bit.  I have never completely gotten away from porn or masturbation, but took it all down from a daily habit to more like weekly...sometimes longer   I often don't use porn at all anymore, as a conscious decision to try to erase the need for it.  I'm married again and sex is also about weekly (life is too damn busy and exhausting).  So, I'm having maybe two orgasms a week on average.  So, blah blah enough details... I think it took a year of this pattern to recover to where I get erections again during sleep and consistently have an orgasm during real sex without complete reliance on fantasy. 

One, probably psychsomatic, difference I feel is that my balls are fuller and heavier.  Not sure if they are in fact, but it feels better and feeds back into my whole feeling of confidence and more virility.

[2thin2win]

I had this one girl who was quite a bit older than me at the time, I was 28 and she was 40, who was in love with my penis. All she wanted to do was suck it and fuck as much as possible. She once told me she loved my penis because "it isn't so big", which thoroughly confused me at the time. 

She used to fly 2000 miles just for sex. So i believe that there are girls out there that are tiny and prefer a small penis to a large one. 

[PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero]

9 hours ago, 2thin2win said:

I had this one girl who was quite a bit older than me at the time, I was 28 and she was 40, who was in love with my penis. All she wanted to do was suck it and fuck as much as possible. She once told me she loved my penis because "it isn't so big", which thoroughly confused me at the time. 

She used to fly 2000 miles just for sex. So i believe that there are girls out there that are tiny and prefer a small penis to a large one. 

And how big exactly was yours? I mean, yes I have heard of girls preferring smallER penises as opposed to biggER ones but I have never heard of a female who actually wants a small (and I'm talking 4 inches or less) penis. So. Um. Yeah.

[Griz]

On 2018-01-02 at 12:36 AM, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

And how big exactly was yours? I mean, yes I have heard of girls preferring smallER penises as opposed to biggER ones but I have never heard of a female who actually wants a small (and I'm talking 4 inches or less) penis. So. Um. Yeah.

I have a friend who is a tiny girl, and told me she prefers smaller penis’s then big ones. She said even an avg sized penis feels too big for her. 

 

Also had another friend say that the best sex she ever had was with a guy who was just a shade under 4 inches. 

[LostBoy]

8 hours ago, Griz said:

Also had another friend say that the best sex she ever had was with a guy who was just a shade under 4 inches. 

I wish I had met this girl in my dating years! I would have rocked her world!

[Griz]

Lol. She’s pretty nice. She complimented me when I went on and showed her some pics of me. I actually eventually met her in person too a couple times