lacyjay87 Posted November 19, 2009 Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 (edited) ALOT OF PEOPLE ON HERE SAY THEY ARE DEPRESSED AS DO I> ARE WE DEPRESSED OR DO WE HAVE DYSTHYMIA???tHERE ARE MANY Mind-body techniques TO HELP WITH IT AND ALOT OF GOOD INFO I HAVE PUT DOWN TO DEAL WITH ITDysthymia is a mild but chronic form of depression. Dysthymia symptoms usually last for at least two years, and often much longer than that, especially when the condition starts in childhood.Although the symptoms of dysthymia may be less intense than those of depression, dysthymia can actually affect your life more seriously because it lasts so long. With dysthymia, you may lose interest in normal daily activities, feel hopeless, lack productivity and have a low self-esteem. In general, dysthymia prevents you from living life to its fullest, and your overall quality of life may be low. Dysthymia is also known as dysthymic disorder and sometimes as chronic depression and minor depression.SymptomsSigns and symptoms of dysthymia include:Loss of interest in daily activities Feeling sad or down Poor appetite Overeating Hopelessness Sleep problems Lack of energy Fatigue Low self-esteem Trouble concentrating Trouble making decisions Self-criticism Irritability Excessive anger Decreased productivity Avoiding social activities Feelings of guiltDysthymia symptoms typically come and go over a period of years, and their intensity can change over time, too. But in general, you may find it hard to be upbeat even on happy occasions — you may be characterized as having a gloomy personality.CausesIt's not known specifically what causes dysthymia. Researchers believe that dysthymia has similar origins as depression, including:Biochemical. Some evidence from imaging studies indicates that people with depression have physical changes in their brains, and this may be true of dysthymia, too. The significance of these changes is still uncertain but may eventually help pinpoint causes. The naturally occurring brain chemicals called neurotransmitters, which are linked to mood, also may play a role in causing dysthymia. Genes. Some studies show that depression is more common in people whose biological family members also have the condition, and this also appears to be the case with dysthymia. Researchers are trying to find genes that may contribute to causing dysthymia. Environment. Again, as with depression, environment may contribute to dysthymia. Environmental causes are situations in your life that are difficult to cope with, such as the loss of a loved one, financial problems and high stress.Risk factorsAlthough it's not clear exactly how many people may have dysthymia, evidence suggests that it's more common than is depression. That may be because dysthymia tends to start earlier in life — often in childhood or during the teenage years — and lasts longer than does depression. When dysthymia starts on or before age 21, it's called early-onset dysthymia. When it starts after that, it's called late-onset dysthymia.Although the precise cause of dysthymia isn't known, researchers have identified certain factors that appear to increase the risk of developing or triggering dysthymia, including:Having biological relatives with depression Having biological relatives with dysthymia Being female Stressful life events Having a chronic medical conditionComplicationsComplications that dysthymia may cause or be associated with include:Reduced quality of life Major depression Suicidal behavior Substance abuse Relationship difficulties Family conflicts Social isolation School and work problems Decreased productivityLifestyle and home remediesDysthymia generally isn't an illness that you can treat on your own. But you can do some things for yourself that build on your treatment plan. In addition to professional treatment, follow these lifestyle and self-care steps for dysthymia:Mind-body techniques are thought to strengthen the communication between your mind and your body. Complementary and alternative medicine practitioners say that these two systems must be in harmony for you to stay healthy or to heal.Mind-body techniques used to improve dysthymia symptoms can include:Acupuncture Yoga Meditation Guided imagery Massage therapyAs with dietary supplements, take care in using these techniques. Although they may pose less of a risk, relying solely on these to treat dysthymia may not be effective enough. If you try mind-body techniques first to treat your dysthymia but your symptoms worsen or don't improve, be sure to consult your health care providers.Coping and supportCoping with dysthymia can be challenging since it can have such a strong hold on your life. Dysthymia makes it hard to engage in the behavior and activities that may help you feel better. Talk to your doctor or therapist about improving your coping skills, and consider these tips to cope with dysthymia:Simplify your life. Cut back on obligations when possible, and set reasonable schedules for goals. Write in a journal to express pain, anger, fear or other emotions. Read reputable self-help books and consider talking about them to your doctor or therapist. Don't become isolated. Try to participate in normal activities and get together with family or friends regularly. Take care of yourself by eating a healthy diet and getting sufficient sleep. Join a support group for people with depression-related conditions so that you can connect to others facing similar challenges. Stay focused on your goals. Recovery from dysthymia is an ongoing process. Stay motivated by keeping your recovery goals in mind. Remind yourself that you're responsible for managing your illness and working toward your goals. Learn relaxation and stress management. Try such stress reduction techniques as meditation, yoga or tai chi. Structure your time. Plan your day and activities. Try to stay organized. You may find it helpful to make a list of daily tasks.PreventionThere's no sure way to prevent dysthymia. Because dysthymia often starts in childhood, identifying children at risk of the condition may be of some benefit, though, by encouraging early treatment. Also, taking steps to control stress, to increase your resilience and to boost low self-esteem may help ward off dysthymia symptoms. Friendship and social support, especially in times of crisis, can help you weather rough spells. Also, treatment at the earliest sign of a problem can help prevent dysthymia from worsening. Long-term maintenance treatment also may help prevent a relapse of dysthymia symptoms. Edited November 19, 2009 by lacyjay87 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetSue Posted November 19, 2009 Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 (edited) Hi Wow did you swollow a medical book or something ? Well to answer your question, a lot of people on here do actually suffer with/from depression, myself included Your knowlege is good though, and will help a lot of people with either Dysthymia or Depression.Thanks for sharing Take careJj Edited November 19, 2009 by SweetSue John Rutledge 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seaj Posted November 19, 2009 Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 I just wanted to respond that in my personal opinion, I think environment (rather than genetic) has the primary and possibly only cause for dysthmic disorder.You listed the following:"Having biological relatives with depression Having biological relatives with dysthymia Being female Stressful life events Having a chronic medical condition"I've had relatives with bouts of depression, but with damn good reason for it. Like getting AIDS from a plasma transfusion after a car accident before any screening took place. I don't think hat's genetic. I am female yes. I've had and do have a ridiculous amount of stressful life events. I also have more than one chronic medical condition (not including psychological in that list).All of that lends me to believe it's an environmental factor.Whether I agree with whether I suffer from dysthmic disorder specifically and not depression is another question. I think there are many times when I'd say I suffer both.Thanks for the read by the way. 'twas interesting for me given Dysthmic Disorder is always the first listed disorder for me on my form when re-applying for Disability status. Of course anyone who reads the form has no clue what it is and the computers aren't equipped to put in anything beyond more basic terms. John Rutledge 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lacyjay87 Posted November 19, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 Hi Wow did you swollow a medical book or something ? Well to answer your question, a lot of people on here do actually suffer with/from depression, myself included Your knowlege is good though, and will help a lot of people with either Dysthymia or Depression.Thanks for sharing Take careJjI don’t know what I suffer from I just know that I’m not who I used to be.I’m sorry you suffer from depression it’s horribleI’m glad I could share! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lacyjay87 Posted November 19, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 Whether I agree with whether I suffer from dysthmic disorder specifically and not depression is another question. I think there are many times when I'd say I suffer both.It is very true that you can/may be suffering from them both...when one suffers from both depression and dysthymia it is called Double depression Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetSue Posted November 19, 2009 Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 Well if you are struggling with your feelings and are feeling low hun, do you think that maybe it would be a good idea to get yourself checked out by a Doctor.The Doctor will be able to help you, and be able to evaluate you, and acurately determine what the problem is. And point you in the right direction as in the way forward, ie...... Therapy, meds etc............Its good to have a interest in Medical Books and even good to occasionally research various illnesses, but sometimes I think medical books just cause more worry and concern. Its never a good idea to self diagnose. Kinda why we have pros', to turn to, its there job Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lacyjay87 Posted November 19, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 Its never a good idea to self diagnose. Kinda why we have pros', to turn to, its there job I know you were being serious with this statement, but I had to laugh lol...no I think your right I do need to go to the doc. I just have so many med bills to pay now, b/c they did a bunch of test on me b/c they thought I had poly cystic ovary syndrome I owe like 2000 bucks. I think owing all that money makes me feel depressed...I’m the type of person who pays things off BAM BAM like that...but we have not even tried to pay them off...it makes me sick to look at our accounts...I think money has become an obsession..I love having it, but I refuse to give it up...I think that’s why we are not poor b/c I don’t allow it to be spent...I think the love of money is a SIN and I don’t like to SIN so that makes me even more sick and worse off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetSue Posted November 19, 2009 Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 You know we all from time to time find excuses not to seek the help we need, and even manage to convince ourself that they are valid reasons (something Im guilty of )You have already stated that you are not poor, and that you usually pay off your outstanding debts promptly. So what is it really that is stopping you from seeking the help and support from the proffessionals ?We all get scared of admitting to the docs we have a problem and that we are not coping very well. With me I was petrified of loosing everything I loved, everything my life stood for. And well in a way I was unfortunately right to a certain degree. But you know what the very thing that I was so scared of loosing is what inspired me and gave me the courage to get the help I needed.Youre a moma like me right ?Well my babies were my inspiration, my hope. I always want the best for my babies, how could I of possibly of been the best moma for my kids, if I didnt try and get well myself ?Part of our role as a moma is to set a good example to our kiddies, and I guess in a way I hope that is what I am doing currently.All I am trying to say, in my usual confusing round about way is, well maybe if you work out what scares you most when it comes to getting the help you deserve, then maybe we can help you overcome that fear BTW, if it werent for the support I recieved when I first joined this community I would never of had the courage to go to the docs.Hope what I have tried to say makes some sort of sense ~ one of them days for me (hey hum)Take careJj Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lacyjay87 Posted November 19, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 So what is it really that is stopping you from seeking the help and support from the proffessionals ?Ok this is the real reason why: what if I go to these clinics and they find out I’m mental or depressed or Bp or something then they might try to say I’m an unfit mother and try to take her. Jayden has a bath twice a day...Jayden gets her diaper changed even if there is a drop of pee she has never had a rash. Her hair is always done clothes brand new and fantastic and clean, shoes out of this world. I don’t have a dang thing to wear my shoes have holes all in them and my pants and shirts are stained, but my daughter has the best. We choose to have little so Jayden can have a lot...I have taught her manners and colors and shapes and I got her “your baby can read” bc I already care about her education..She is so loved and well taken care. I could not imagine them taking her form me and placing her with someone who just let her do her own thing all day, did not change her diaper until it sagged, did not teach her, and did not love her like me....If the docs think there is something wrong with me they probably won’t hesitate to take my daughter. I’m ok with moderate depression as long as I have my baby. The people around here let their kids run wild and dirty they stink and they are not taken care of…good example: My friend’s daughter. I watch her often and she loves it with me. She wants to be held and played with and taught and read too, and no one but me does that for her. When she is with me it is from 7am until 9-10pm for a few days at a time. She won’t have a rash, but next time she comes back she does. They can keep a thing of diapers 40-60 diapers for a month…..now me...I run out of 40-60 diapers in a few weeks. SORRY THESE ARE MY FEARS….I would not be able to live if my daughter was not here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetSue Posted November 19, 2009 Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 Youre married ~ right ?Not every person with a mental health issue, looses there children because of their illness. Crap this is a raw subject for me, so I will try and be as possitive as I can The thing is NO ONE is saying that coz your struggling emotionally that it makes you an unfit moma. Youre baby wont be taken from you just for visiting your doctor and recieving the support that you need. Do you realise how many momas actually suffer with depression or something related ? Well its really quite common. But it is possible, with the aid of meds, therapy help and support whilst feeling low, to be a perfectly capable moma, and have your baby at home with you. Loads of people suffer with one form or other with ill health, just coz they are ill dosnt mean they are unfit as parents.But, if you dont seek the advice and the support and the medical attention, things could get worse, and then what happens ???? I dont know the right words, this is very raw and close to my heart (long story). Find your inner strength, courage and determination and just make an appointment to see your dr.Sorry, I would like to be able to help you further, but this subject is just too much for me today.I wish you well take careJj Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lacyjay87 Posted November 19, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 19, 2009 Youre married ~ right ?Not every person with a mental health issue, looses there children because of their illness. Crap this is a raw subject for me, so I will try and be as possitive as I can The thing is NO ONE is saying that coz your struggling emotionally that it makes you an unfit moma. Youre baby wont be taken from you just for visiting your doctor and recieving the support that you need. Do you realise how many momas actually suffer with depression or something related ? Well its really quite common. But it is possible, with the aid of meds, therapy help and support whilst feeling low, to be a perfectly capable moma, and have your baby at home with you. Loads of people suffer with one form or other with ill health, just coz they are ill dosnt mean they are unfit as parents.But, if you dont seek the advice and the support and the medical attention, things could get worse, and then what happens ???? I dont know the right words, this is very raw and close to my heart (long story). Find your inner strength, courage and determination and just make an appointment to see your dr.Sorry, I would like to be able to help you further, but this subject is just too much for me today.I wish you well take careJjyes im married, well im glad to know that they wont just jump to taking her from me...I guess if that part of it is held tight then i will go to the doctors Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ASchwartz Posted November 20, 2009 Report Share Posted November 20, 2009 Hi Lacey and everyoneI want to clarify some important points:1. Dysthymia is depression.Do not be fooled by the term "milder depression." The fact is that dysthymia runs along a continuum from mild to extremely serious incuding suicide. It all depends on the person. It's like getting the flu. Some people get the flu and its mild. Others get the same flu and its very serious and even dangerous.2. If people had their children taken away because they have dysthymia, major depression, a personality disorder, etc, then, there would be no children living at home. Fear not. Just because you go for therapy does not at all mean that anyone will take anything from you (except your money to pay the bill ) I hope this calms you. "You have nothing to fear but fear itself."Allan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seaj Posted November 20, 2009 Report Share Posted November 20, 2009 Thank you Allan. What I had always read was what you just wrote. And I started to wonder, after what I read first, why my doctor would list it first if it wasn't my most serious condition (that the Government would understand anyway - since BPD is not understood). It's there to be listed as the most debilitating also and sorry to say, but "mild depression" just didn't seem to fit that bill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lacyjay87 Posted November 21, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 21, 2009 Hi Lacey and everyoneI want to clarify some important points:1. Dysthymia is depression.Do not be fooled by the term "milder depression." The fact is that dysthymia runs along a continuum from mild to extremely serious incuding suicide. It all depends on the person. It's like getting the flu. Some people get the flu and its mild. Others get the same flu and its very serious and even dangerous.2. If people had their children taken away because they have dysthymia, major depression, a personality disorder, etc, then, there would be no children living at home. Fear not. Just because you go for therapy does not at all mean that anyone will take anything from you (except your money to pay the bill ) I hope this calms you. "You have nothing to fear but fear itself."Allan thanks for that.is it true that Dysthymia is in fact most of the time worse than depression. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catsirish Posted December 29, 2009 Report Share Posted December 29, 2009 ya know, ive never felt responsible for my depression, its always tormented me to be told to ''snap out of it'' I dont feel like ive anything to do with it, its chemistry, altho cognitive thinking can help me cope with it. no cure for me it seems, especially if the cure means to be vibrant and plugged into life with lots of friends and activities, i dont want that. so now what. :eek: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted December 29, 2009 Report Share Posted December 29, 2009 I think "the cure" would be defined as getting as close to what you want as you possibly can ...You're entitled to make "what you want" be ... whatever you want. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symora Posted December 29, 2009 Report Share Posted December 29, 2009 I think I have suffered from dysthymia most of my life now that I know about it, and I managed to raise 2 kids on my own. I was diagnosed with depression off and on, but mostly when I was suffering from severe bouts of depression I think. I have seen doctors on and off about depression for years and I assure you that this does not mean you will have your kids taken away. The information you provide to your doctor and your medical relationship is protected by law under the privacy act (in Canada at least), and the only way social services interferes is when there are serious issues for the kids, where they are being severely neglected or abused, or you are hospitalized for long periods with no one to take care of them. Go get the help you need, I consider that it is actually a gift you are giving you family...Best wishesSymora Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catsirish Posted December 30, 2009 Report Share Posted December 30, 2009 thank you malign, that was a good answer for me.............i dont think ive ever thought about ''what i want''. ............nothings worth having, except no pain. gosh im a sick woman Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted December 30, 2009 Report Share Posted December 30, 2009 I'm sorry that you are in pain, catsirish. Maybe recognizing your pain and discovering where it is coming from would help to ease it some. Talking about things can be helpful. Have you been doing this with someone? Are you in therapy? I find it very sad that you haven't considered what you want in life. Why is it that you feel nothing is worth having? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catsirish Posted December 30, 2009 Report Share Posted December 30, 2009 well because its not, and i dont want it to be this way i dont, but in the big scheme of things where we are at is ''no place'' so why feel anything about it. im scared of my own mental illness. yikes. pain is real, joy is fooling ourselves.....its all only chemistry, right.:eek: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catsirish Posted December 30, 2009 Report Share Posted December 30, 2009 inertia, atrophy, thats me, and whats worse is the unwillingness or unable or dont want to. oh no. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted December 30, 2009 Report Share Posted December 30, 2009 I wonder what you mean by where we are at is "no place"? Is that where you feel you are?Hmm..joy is only chemistry? Are you talking about "in love" chemicals released in the brain? If the feelings are true, when those chemicals die down, the love and attachment remain with us. Love will still be very joyous. It's just more serene. What things in life bring you joy, catsirish? What is beautiful to you? What about even your avatar? I think that is quite pretty with the blue candle. Don't you?I hope you feel better soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catsirish Posted December 30, 2009 Report Share Posted December 30, 2009 intellectually everything is beautiful, emotionally nothing is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symora Posted December 30, 2009 Report Share Posted December 30, 2009 I can relate to that. Intellectually I tell myself that I really don't have any problems, life is good, I have everything I need, but emotionally I feel like nothing matters and the only emotion I really feel is pain. You are not alone in that... I wonder if it's because the negative emotions are so powerful that they overshadow any positive emotion I could feel.... I have often wondered about that. I've decided to work on that in 2010. Finding some things that I enjoy doing, and working on my self esteem. I think I feel lousy about life because I feel lousy about myself. So I'm going to use my overactive brain next year to discover more about those thing.... question of shifting the focus.I also think that positive readings and affirmations are helpful. They keep the mind focused in the right direction, sort of the purpose of prayer as well, it refocuses the mind towards gratitude and hope.Salut Symora Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catsirish Posted December 30, 2009 Report Share Posted December 30, 2009 gosh, thank you so much for your reply, especially the bit about me not been alone, god knows ive tried everything, ive read a thousand books, ive listened to a thousand tapes over and over and over, i take meds and thyroid, and omg have i prayed, and begged and pleaded. i would never consider suicide because im aware this is a mental illness, strangly i am very grateful for my blessings and there is many. the struggle just bugs the hell out of me. i know what i need to do, but i dont last long with the amount of effort it takes for me to get from this moment to the next moment............im listening to Wayne Dyer right now. ive changed a lot these past 5 years on this journey to find out what this black hole is. ........crazy isnt it. :eek: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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