randomperson Posted November 30, 2010 Report Share Posted November 30, 2010 I come to realize the biggest problems I am struggling with stem with the two people I am closest too my mother and my ex? girlfriend. All of us have been through too much this last year and we all struggle with emotional problems in our own way. There are other things giving problems as well but if I can figure out things in these two areas I think I will be ok.But as I said I am struggling with it.. I need help and advice.My ex is in another state it was always long distance but we grew pretty close.We don't really fight but she has trouble getting close, and in turn I tend to be clingy. I recently realized she broke up for me because of this. She said she loves me but still withdraws. I barely hear from her. She is going through a lot right now. When I do get a message she says the sweetest things.I can't move to be with her because I have to care for my mother who is in really bad health. My mother is just the opposite she wants me to be around her all the time because she is alone. I think at times though I try not to I blame her for a lot that has happened. Things are rocky over all with everyone. Ups and downs.I'm not really sure what all of this means, or what I should do..All of it first triggered others problems with me (why I came into these forums).. but I have since figured these issues in this thread are my root problems making the others worse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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