Real life support group for SPS

[Klingsor]

 

[Klingsor]

“It sucks, guys with little dicks, I’m sorry…it’s a shitty fucking roll of the dice, but it’s the way of life.”

”There are physical realities…a guy with a little dick is never gonna be able to fuck like Ron Jeremy.”

~ Joe Rogan, anti-feminist champion, MGTOW hero, and right-wing mythopoetic men’s movement guru

 

 

[Shrimp Fried Life]

and yet none of those guys told men with small dicks to kill themselves.

[Wayless]

On 11/6/2021 at 2:28 PM, Klingsor said:

~ Joe Rogan, anti-feminist champion, MGTOW hero, and right-wing mythopoetic men’s movement guru

I don't recall Joe ever being anti-feminist, MGTOW or even partial to "men's movement."

I've been told he is very short of stature in spite of his strong physical masculine presence. 

[Klingsor]

Yes of course. There’s an answer for everything. Because you’re the male equivalent of the “ugly, unfuckable, angry feminist” who hates men on principle. It’s the exact same mentality. You will eagerly eat any amount of disrespectful mocking shit from another human being as long as it doesn’t have a vagina. As I said years ago, you’re the type who would happily engage in cuckoldry as long as it is suggested by a male with the attitude of “c’mon bro, lemme punish and humiliate that bitch with my BIG COCK, BRO”. You’d love it. And ironically giving the woman what women haters claim she wants most…aggression and big dick sex.

And as this is the “support” thread, I’m always struck by the fact that the best these male-only digital communities can muster in support of each other is “cope or rope”. Beyond that the only dogma is hating women. Because it FEELZ GOOD. Intellect is for pussies. 

[Klingsor]

@Wayless

Amazing how you disappear when I’m not posting. It’s called irony…because that’s how Rogain is characterized by the political left…the ones allied with the feminazis. Imo he’s what I call a “Southpark Republican” and generates the same stupid juvenile Johnny Knoxville type shit I have to endure on a daily fucking basis.

[Klingsor]

I’m imagining the looks on some your faces when you see how the great redistribution of flesh and trickle-down pussy economy is all bullshit after your “Bro’s” take over. But as always it FEELS GOOD. 

“LIBERTÉ, EGALITÉ, FRATERNITÉ!” ✊✊

[Bobbobbob]

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[Wayless]

On 11/17/2021 at 6:22 PM, Klingsor said:

@Wayless

Amazing how you disappear when I’m not posting. It’s called irony…because that’s how Rogain is characterized by the political left…the ones allied with the feminazis. Imo he’s what I call a “Southpark Republican” and generates the same stupid juvenile Johnny Knoxville type shit I have to endure on a daily fucking basis.

Somehow, you've become too subtle for me, apparently. 

When I inadvertently was exposed to group sex, not premeditated cuckoldry on my part, there was no pretense I wasn't being humiliated by man and woman alike for their additional enjoyment.

The more memorable woman, who had long claimed she could only orgasm from oral and disliked providing oral, enjoyed showing she had been lying on both counts!  Man had a big smile, too.

[Wayless]

On 5/11/2021 at 9:53 PM, Clyde said:

Micropenis social isolation is real. Rarely does one find a anyone who is compassionate about the subject.  I’ve tried to visit about this with several different counselors. At the very mention of the word “micropenis” there is a long pause and it’s likely to be a conversation stopper.  After 61 years, it’s still a problem.

Truer words have never been spoken.  The normally hung either deny the problem or laugh.

[Klingsor]

On 12/17/2021 at 1:32 PM, Wayless said:

Somehow, you've become too subtle for me, apparently. 

What is too subtle for you

[Wayless]

On 11/17/2021 at 6:16 PM, Klingsor said:

Because you’re the male equivalent of the “ugly, unfuckable, angry feminist” who hates men on principle. It’s the exact same mentality. You will eagerly eat any amount of disrespectful mocking shit from another human being as long as it doesn’t have a vagina. As I said years ago, you’re the type who would happily engage in cuckoldry as long as it is suggested by a male with the attitude of “c’mon bro, lemme punish and humiliate that bitch with my BIG COCK, BRO”. You’d love it. And ironically giving the woman what women haters claim she wants most…aggression and big dick sex

I'm quite the opposite because I hate stereotypical men.  So, I don't get your point.  Yes, I agree there are men like that, however.

[Klingsor]

That comment wasn’t directed at you. 

[Just trying to help]

hi there everyone. i'm a woman, just a disclaimer.

i'm dating a man that i am madly in love with. We have amazing sex and I even orgasm from penetration with him, which has never happened before with other partners. he has a small penis, probably four inches erect, 2 inches flaccid. It has NEVER bothered me and I've never made mention of it. recently he brought up this issue as the core central issue to his depression and body dysmorphia. It is the root of most of his insecurities and mental health issues. I was shocked to find this out because of the frequency in which we fuck and the success we have (both parties finishing). he said that his previous girlfriend was relentlessly cruel about it and always reminded him of his.... lack.

after what i'm reading here, it sounds like nothing, not female validation, not a successful sex life, not a loving partner, truly nothing makes this issue better or go away for the man involved. I guess I was hoping to come to this forum and find a community of proud tiny penis-ers. but it seems quite the opposite, and quite damning actually. i feel like the only way this issue gets better for anyone with a small penis is eventually finding a community of people that make you feel proud of your penis, because a partner alone just isn't enough. 

i fear that if he doesn't learn to love and accept himself soon, we may break up. he has taken to harming himself and has cited his small penis as the issue why. I can't watch him hurt himself much longer but he says he may never accept himself. 

I guess I wonder how women with large labia accept themselves. I have plenty of friends with abnormally large inner labia that protrude from their outer labia, and in general look quite unsightly frankly, more unsightly than any penis i have ever seen. but somehow they all have learned to love it and own it, despite the lack of conversation surrounding it and the lack of representation in porn. maybe it is the direct correlation of manliness/masculinity/identity our society places around penis size that makes it something so impossible to accept, more so than labia for women. women don't typically have to worry about what their genitals look like as a way to express their femininity and validity as women. women also in general are more comfortable being vulnerable and expressing compassion for themselves and others, so maybe that has something to do with it.

A lot of these forums sometimes end up reading like InCel support groups who hate cruel, snide women who don't accept them for who they are. but my boyfriend doesn't hate women, and it doesn't sound like anyone here hates women. it sounds like this is something that actually makes having man to man friendships more difficult if anything. Especially considering most of my female friends have now told me that their boyfriends have smaller penises, and they never thought about it being an issue once. When I raised this question to them, I ended the conversation by saying if their man hasnt brought it up, DONT, because he probably thinks about it more than we will ever know.

this is really long, sorry about that. If anyone has any suggestions or has any ideas about how to build a community for people who are insecure about their genitals in general, I would love to know. 

xx,

M 

 

 

[Klingsor]

On 1/3/2022 at 6:39 PM, Just trying to help said:

it sounds like nothing, not female validation, not a successful sex life, not a loving partner, truly nothing makes this issue better or go away for the man involved.

100% correct. Because a man's penis is directly tied to his identity as a man. The size of his member is a crude evaluation of his masculinity. It's a metric by which his entire value as a male is measured. Speaking for myself, this curse has completely destroyed my life...sexually, socially, and professionally. I have nothing to live for, I just exist subsistence level. 

On 1/3/2022 at 6:39 PM, Just trying to help said:

i feel like the only way this issue gets better for anyone with a small penis is eventually finding a community of people that make you feel proud of your penis, because a partner alone just isn't enough.

No. There are already communities for men who feel disenfranchised...manosphere, MGTOW, incels...and they are only united in their fanatic hatred of women and gays. Take that away and they hate each other as much or more than anyone else. 

On 1/3/2022 at 6:39 PM, Just trying to help said:

I guess I wonder how women with large labia accept themselves. I have plenty of friends with abnormally large inner labia that protrude from their outer labia, and in general look quite unsightly frankly, more unsightly than any penis i have ever seen. but somehow they all have learned to love it and own it, despite the lack of conversation surrounding it and the lack of representation in porn. maybe it is the direct correlation of manliness/masculinity/identity our society places around penis size that makes it something so impossible to accept, more so than labia for women. women don't typically have to worry about what their genitals look like as a way to express their femininity and validity as women. women also in general are more comfortable being vulnerable and expressing compassion for themselves and others, so maybe that has something to do with it.

I have stated before that I personally think the nearest comparison with small penis syndrome for a woman would be sterility or some kind of problem that makes a woman infertile. To me, that strikes at the core of what it means to be a woman in the same way as small penis syndrome strikes at the core of masculinity. I think this talk about labias, small breasts, or anorexia is not valid with respect to SPS. 

On 1/3/2022 at 6:39 PM, Just trying to help said:

A lot of these forums sometimes end up reading like InCel support groups who hate cruel, snide women who don't accept them for who they are.

These men hate women and gays because both of these groups explicitly exist in their mind as a constant reminder of their sexual inadequacy. Killing or destroying them removes the reminder, hence the violence. Additionally, 99.9999% of men find it impossible to ever admit another man is superior to them in some way. A world without women and homosexuals is a world where they can compete with other men non-sexually. 

On 1/3/2022 at 6:39 PM, Just trying to help said:

When I raised this question to them, I ended the conversation by saying if their man hasnt brought it up, DONT, because he probably thinks about it more than we will ever know.

This is the absolute best advice that can be given to a woman in a relationship with a man who possibly is insecure about his dick...never bring the topic up. Don't ever compliment the guy with, "oh yours is perfect, the big ones hurt". The best thing a woman can do is 1) break up with him on another pretext if she doesn't like the sex because eventually the guy will come to hate her for not orgasming or enjoying it or 2) if, like you, she does enjoy the sex, never bring the topic of dick size up, EVER. 

[Josh31]

On 11/6/2021 at 2:00 PM, Klingsor said:

 

[Josh31]

This 

[Happy husband]

Gents, I have been reading these posts and have to say how ashamed I am of myself.  I was looking for advice or guidance but I am fairly lucky.  I am in the unfortunate position of having a small member, but I am fortunate enough to have found someone who loves me anyway.  After 32 years together we still have a great sex life.  Maybe this forum should be about what has worked and what hasn't for us in the sack.  Seems like some guys have been searching for years with no real help.  

[ImOne234Ever]

On 11/21/2011 at 8:33 PM, Thermonuclear Warrior said:

How would people such as myself feel about a real life support group to discuss this issue with and to possibly make some actual friends with the same problem? For me, part of the problem lies in the fact that I can't personally relate to many people about this issue in real life. It'd be nice to have friends with the same problem for sure... When I tell my friends that I have a small penis, they think I'm kidding. Most of my friends all have pretty awesome sex lives, and it'd be nice to know some successful people with this issue.

Would anyone be ashamed to sign up for such a group? I figure all my friends know about my issue whether they think I'm serious or not, so i really have nothing to be ashamed of when it come sto talking about the problem with other dudes or females.

I got inspired from this youtube video. You need to be a youtube member to view it, but it's really entertaining. It basically involves the story around a dude with SPS who enters a support group very depressed about his issue, but in the end he's happy like the other members. It's pretty funny it is not graphic at all. I just liked the parts where all the members of the group were hanging out with each other and discussing their embarrassing sexual histories...

 

Hello mate. I can relate and if you want to be friends I will be happy to make a new friend. I also know of a site we can talk about that is a support group for our gift. 

[Toosmallforcomfort]

whoa, these threads are 11 years old peeps

 

[Wayless]

On 5/30/2022 at 5:00 PM, Toosmallforcomfort said:

whoa, these threads are 11 years old peeps

 

But, the content is timeless.  Current members can discuss the thoughts presented productively.

[Ron2022]

Hello all, 

Gay 27 year old chiming in here.

I've been mentally tormented with SPS since I was a kid in the locker rooms. I would notice it there and when friends underwent puberty.. and mine clearly didn't change.. it messed with me. Enter university, and all I heard around me were general small dick jokes and demeaning comments about those with small dicks. That didn't make me feel comfortable with my secret. If anything, it gave me a glimpse into the society we all know and understand to be.

I get the added bullshit layer of being gay..in a community that is highly overly sexualised, with a majority being size queens and an average size of 6 inches. I have forced myself to go on Grindr hookups, subjected myself to demeaning experiences on that app for anyone to consider me a 'top' or have an experience...and I was just recently told by an old hookup (on my prompting how the experience was) that I would quote "never satisfy anyone with an extremely small penis" and that I "don't know how to fuck you have no rhythm."

I'm a bit depressed by it. The person has some truth in their semi-hurtful comment. I have had relationships breakup because of sexual incompatibility and most hookups. I'm seeking love and I've been bawling my eyes out thinking about the fact that maybe no one will ever fully love me, esp. in this community. They'll just put up with me in spite of it, for all of my other fantastic characteristics. That hurts. 

So yes, get this forum talking, either on here or on Discord... I went searching for one today after said events thinking perhaps that's one way of at least coping better.

- R.

[jorge128]

On 10/29/2021 at 8:56 PM, Lorrrrro said:

My life has been ruined due to having a micropenis,I have never mentioned it to anyone because,well where do you take rhat,but I can't go on with the pain. Its the reason I turned to drugs, the reason no one has ever slept with me more than once,and the reason I have never had a gf. Its ruined my life. I'm 31 and get told I am attractive,but k owing that I'm never gonna be enough for anyone is making me suicidal. I'm a year clean now n this is the only thing holding me back in life,I just don't know wtf to do,I just want to be loved and to b enough for somebody,my heartbreaks a little more each day. And I just don't k ow what to do.

I am truly sorry you have these feelings. Honestly. My brother has a micropenis. He is 40 and only has had intercourse one time his whole life. Over the years he has progressively deteriorated mentally because of his size. He's become isolated, insecure, self loathing, and severely depressed. Recenly, he refused to seek medical attention for hernia because hes embarrassed. Its getting really bad. It's affecting his health now.

His sadness is crushing for me to witness, especially because he is a great human with such a kind heart. People make fun of him and I try to make him feel better but it doesn't help. It breaks my heart. No one deserves to feel so alone or worthless because of size. But as a woman, how could I say you shouldn't feel like this? I am desperate to find something or someone to help him. If not, I don't want to think of what can happen.