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How would people such as myself feel about a real life support group to discuss this issue with and to possibly make some actual friends with the same problem? For me, part of the problem lies in the fact that I can't personally relate to many people about this issue in real life. It'd be nice to have friends with the same problem for sure... When I tell my friends that I have a small penis, they think I'm kidding. Most of my friends all have pretty awesome sex lives, and it'd be nice to know some successful people with this issue.

Would anyone be ashamed to sign up for such a group? I figure all my friends know about my issue whether they think I'm serious or not, so i really have nothing to be ashamed of when it come sto talking about the problem with other dudes or females.

I got inspired from this youtube video. You need to be a youtube member to view it, but it's really entertaining. It basically involves the story around a dude with SPS who enters a support group very depressed about his issue, but in the end he's happy like the other members. It's pretty funny it is not graphic at all. I just liked the parts where all the members of the group were hanging out with each other and discussing their embarrassing sexual histories...

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TW, I figure I'm like a lot of other guys. I'm already 'out', small penis wise. Most if not all of my guy friends have seen me nude at the gym or in the locker room at the local pool. I'm sure they (or my wife) have shared the info with their girlfriends/spouses/female friends. Everyone knows.

So the thought of being in a group of guys who knows I'm small doesn't bother me. It bothers me more knowing my wife shares intimate things about us, but thats already been beat to death.

I tend to be a practical guy. I make decisions based on facts, not as much on emotions. But I'm always willing to listen and learn.

What good is a group setting? One sets there and shares stories to what end? What could I talk about in person that I couldn't relate here? I'm not being confrontational or stubborn, I'm really at a loss to see what good a group therapy setting would do in this case. I know there are others who are in the same boat as me, and I know how they feel. I'm more than willing to invest time and money to overcome a problem, but I want a clearly defined goal that will be a practical help.

When enlargement becomes geneticly or surgicly feasable, that will have my full attention.

I'd be more than willing to listen to other guys if it would help them, but I don't see where this would help me at all. (And I tend to project my feelings onto other guys. I can't see how this talkfest would help them either)

John

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John, I agree with you. There is really nothing the guy who is

saddled with this affliction can gain by complaining to ANYBODY about it.

Regarding "friends" who are likely to share this with others, there's really nothing one can do about it since the only other accepted form of discrimination

that exists is society's acceptance of making fun of "hillbillys" from the south.

It is a given that many women will spread the word when they encounter a short penis and who really knows abut your male "friends" when you aren't standing next to them.

What I have found is that most of them will at least not make aissue about it as long as you treat them "right" and, of course, foot the bill for anything and everything that includes the two of you.

Once the "relationship" is over, all bets are off.

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I admire you for that it makes life so much easier :).

I'd really recommend support groups.

I can speak from experience. Here in Hanover we have a great asexual table of regulars, it helped me

so much to get to know these people, listen to their stories, just talking about random stuff and see that I'm not alone.

So maybe there is something like a "problems with sex"-support-group in your area?

I guess a forum-meeting is rather difficult as you live spread across the world?

There seem to be some interest according to the number of views of this thread.

A secret facebook-group with a reliable admin would also be possible.

PS: Okay I know it's an older thread, but I wanted to get it out of the dust.

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I wouldn't want to talk to Men about I think, only women.

You mean women who would accept/prefer smaller penises?

Don't you think that exchange with other men could be helpful as well? Okay, in this forum you have

exchange as well, but it's not exactly the same as when really getting to know somebody with similiar issues in person.

The youtube video is quite ear-wormy :).

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I think a LIVE chat would be helpful. I don't know if there's a possibility of it happening in conjunction with this site, but that would be preferable. Also I'm not sure I would want it openly available by search to everyone on the net, it'd attract a lot of trolls. But I think it'd be good. Problem with forums is they tend to be forums for problems, it'd be nice to chat with everyone here about regular stuff. 

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I think a support group would be a great idea, I remember watching a documentary years ago about men with small penis sizes who set up there own support group in America, they met up every month for a night out earthier bowling restaraunts or nights out clubbing and all of them said it's the best thing they ever did and changed there lives  , when on nights out clubbing they were really open about they had small penis sizes to women because they were in a large group about 20 all in the same boat

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Of course size matters, who doesn't like a big cock? We're women, sexual women with standards and we're proud of our confidence. Unless you don't want to seem shallow publicly, then it's all motion in the ocean, the rhythm in your stick. If you love the guy, it shouldn't matter. The truth is I rate movies in the exact same way, anything less than a 7 rarely gets a watch. A big cock is like Godfather, who doesn't like it? And my cock is like an M.Night Shyamalam film (not The Sixth Sense) it's even got a twist. My cock might be passable hard, but flaccid it's the knob version of The Room or Troll 2. 

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Micropenis social isolation is real. Rarely does one find a anyone who is compassionate about the subject.  I’ve tried to visit about this with several different counselors. At the very mention of the word “micropenis” there is a long pause and it’s likely to be a conversation stopper.  After 61 years, it’s still a problem.

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On 5/11/2021 at 9:53 PM, Clyde said:

Micropenis social isolation is real. Rarely does one find a anyone who is compassionate about the subject.  I’ve tried to visit about this with several different counselors. At the very mention of the word “micropenis” there is a long pause and it’s likely to be a conversation stopper.  After 61 years, it’s still a problem.

I hear you.  I'm not quite micro, but I've had the same problems with therapists.

The problem upsets people because they know how difficult an affliction it is, but don't want to deal with it.

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I'm 68 yo and never had an intimate relationship with a woman because of my shame of having a small thin penis. I know it would not feel good to a woman. I read that I should brush up on my oral skills but women love to fuck. I'd like to know how the medical community came up with the measurement of what is a normal penis. They say that a man who can impregnate a woman is normal but humans don't have sex for procreation any more. Most woman say now days that size does matter so please spare me that bullshit about how is not the size its what you do with it. Do you think Heidi Klum would want a guy with a small dick. I think not.

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On 6/13/2021 at 12:09 AM, Darren said:

I'm 68 yo and never had an intimate relationship with a woman because of my shame of having a small thin penis. I know it would not feel good to a woman. I read that I should brush up on my oral skills but women love to fuck. I'd like to know how the medical community came up with the measurement of what is a normal penis. They say that a man who can impregnate a woman is normal but humans don't have sex for procreation any more. Most woman say now days that size does matter so please spare me that bullshit about how is not the size its what you do with it. Do you think Heidi Klum would want a guy with a small dick. I think not.

You can't do nothing to change what you are , it is your destiny and no one can change it , and secondly don't be sad because you are not alone, there is always someone who is worse than your case. and  believe me if i have the choice  between losing totally the sex desire and organs meaning  0 attaction to the other gender  like a robot (which i think not possible ) or  to have long penis like seen in porn and strongest libido ever  , i would chose no sex ever , because as far as you stay away from sex , you will level up , you can notice geniuses and scientists don't really care about sex , it is not a consolation but it is a fact . alot of dopamine ...... could be utilized to build success.

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My life has been ruined due to having a micropenis,I have never mentioned it to anyone because,well where do you take rhat,but I can't go on with the pain. Its the reason I turned to drugs, the reason no one has ever slept with me more than once,and the reason I have never had a gf. Its ruined my life. I'm 31 and get told I am attractive,but k owing that I'm never gonna be enough for anyone is making me suicidal. I'm a year clean now n this is the only thing holding me back in life,I just don't know wtf to do,I just want to be loved and to b enough for somebody,my heartbreaks a little more each day. And I just don't k ow what to do.

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It just turns into a big pity party like most of these small penis forums. I saw a female comedienne say guys with small dicks should kill themselves. it would be a mercy killing she said. Can you imagine if a male comedian said women with small tits should kill themselves.

Nobody cares.

I see they had a march in California to raise awareness of small penis shaming. It just gives them an opportunity to make even more fun.

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