Victimorthecrime Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/men_shealth/9979264/Size-does-matter-study-finds.htmlTo the folks that think "it's all in our head" read this article. It is also in USA Today & a million others. It was reported on my local news by a blonde bimbo laughing that size does matter. I swear there is a conspiracy to really bring us men down & hurt us. Imagine a similar report demeaning women on the news? Never. If this isolated it would be different but it is everywhere in movies, advertising, and these studies. Unbelievable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 Yes, people are idjits, and sometimes they're even idjits in print or on TV. That doesn't make 'em important ...I agree that this is hurtful, and that there's a double standard on things like this. I don't think it's a conspiracy-style thing (because you'd have to wonder who would benefit); I think it just comes from people's misunderstandings about what's important. And hey, tabloid journalism goes for the lowest common denominator.And as for the blonde on TV, she certainly isn't the face, much less the brain, of the average woman. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted April 9, 2013 Author Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 Thanx Malign. The news anchor was just reading what was in front of her & probably it was just nervous laughter, I realize that now. As far as the conspiracy thing & who would benefit let me say that in my opinion there had emerged from the feminist movement a small but vocal segment that simply hates men. Now I will be the 1st to admit there are a lot of bad guys, I had the shit beat out of me by some growing up & that is the root of why i am a nervous wreck, a deep seated fear & distrust of humanity. Thanx for listening; love to all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 I wasn't trying to minimize; I hope you can see that. I was trying to say what the silent majority generally only think.The difficulty with attributing this particular sort of thing to radical feminists would be that it's difficult to imagine them caring about penises and their size at all, and if they did, that they would turn out not to be man-haters but small-man haters ...Personally, I just think people don't put themselves in the place of others, when they make fun of some group. And why do they need to make fun, at all? Because of their own sort of "size issue": in this case they're afraid the facts won't support how big their ego is. So they try to make themselves seem more important by making other people less. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 I find that kind of stuff pretty painful to read too, VBNC. I try to have a strong voice, but I'm only one person.Take care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Notdoneyet Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 If fate has bequeathed you with a smaller than average unit, just learnto blame any "lady" who doesn't like it for her failure to use her junkin an efficient manner.No point in bemoaning an issue that has no solution. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 The girls at work were talking about this story for the whole of lunchtime todayIm actually not going to repeat some of the comments- they were unremittingly cruel- I am still actually processing them.ps though I though I must point out- one woman didnt join in at all and kept mute throughout the whole 'comedy"and when there was a pause she said "I actually think you are all being very disrespectful and childish" and got up and left!Which made me a feel a tad better till, one of the guys said "I guess her husband is small or something"But the girls did look sheepish... But I'm still in a rage because of it- my brain keeps trying to recall their comments- Hateful stuff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bundy Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 who even cares anymore.Life just fucking blows, that's all there is to it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted April 9, 2013 Author Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 I mean somebody actually comissioned a study and the study gets international exposure. Unbelievable! Thanks for the comments & the support everyone, it really does help :-)) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wastedlife Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 Of course it matters...why is this even debated any more. No women in the world would take 3 inch penis over 7-8 inch penis...unless she doesn’t care much for sex and I believe women who have aversion to sex were sleeping with small penis guys who didn’t know what they were doing. Give her a hung dude who knows how to use it and I bet she would love it. Man with small penises are useless in today’s society, just outcasts hiding in the deep craves-es of the world waiting to die...no matter what we do or who we are were always going to have that useless little penis...sign Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeep Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 . Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted April 9, 2013 Report Share Posted April 9, 2013 the news is 99.9 % crap anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted April 10, 2013 Author Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 There is a Facebook page called "I fucking love science" that posted the study - over 4,000 comments and counting. Quite the issue. To be fair a lot comments were reassuring and haters just look like idiots. A very pretty girl that I know, a former coworker, told me that size does not matter to her, she does not care about looks at all only the emotional connection. Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted April 10, 2013 Author Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 who even cares anymore.Life just fucking blows, that's all there is to it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted April 10, 2013 Author Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 Hey Death - I totally get it, I have been there, many times crying into my hands and hating myself because i was too much of a pussy to even attempt suicide. I am not going to give any horse shit condescending advise but do pray you allow yourself happiness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newguy Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 The girls at work were talking about this story for the whole of lunchtime todayIm actually not going to repeat some of the comments- they were unremittingly cruel- I am still actually processing them.ps though I though I must point out- one woman didnt join in at all and kept mute throughout the whole 'comedy"and when there was a pause she said "I actually think you are all being very disrespectful and childish" and got up and left!Which made me a feel a tad better till, one of the guys said "I guess her husband is small or something"But the girls did look sheepish... But I'm still in a rage because of it- my brain keeps trying to recall their comments- Hateful stuff.Sadly my friend we as human beings are having this media body image rubbed into our faces have to be tall have to be size zero have to have big tits a big cock the list goes on and on everything is different we are all insecure about our looks and bodies and we will all worry about our insecurities ..... But how on bloody earth are we as small guys supposed to live a "normal" life getting up going to work at a dead end job here women bitch about small penis over lunch like guys don't have feelings come home sit and dream about having a "normal" live home job wife kids ect when all we get is laughed at every day till the day I die I can only dream about a "normal" life why every low life with a big penis gets a girlfriend that he is a jerk to while all the nice small guys have to sit eating lunch and listening to what these women really thinks and believe me that's what women thinks there is no place in this media lead society when you have a small penis .. these size queens go home to there big penis husbands and lovers after a good laugh and we go home mad bitter and angry and the worse part alone and always will be alone as sadly media has made it acceptable to have a bloody big joke about guys with small penis .. it doesn't matter at all who good looking you are or if you have a great personality if you can't give that girl a good dicking she soon will get bored but to get there you need to go though millions of laughing women ... For me I am planing on going to russia and make porn I'm sure they will not moan if getting paid and there women look stunning ...... We live in a media world that has made it ok and fun to laugh and hate small penis if guys jokes about small tits fat asses and big hanging clits I'm sure the women would have said something but because its only guys that don't have no feels we are all fair game to hate pick on and laugh at... .... We live in a sexual media lead world where being small is a sin sadly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newguy Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 Of course it matters...why is this even debated any more. No women in the world would take 3 inch penis over 7-8 inch penis...unless she doesn’t care much for sex and I believe women who have aversion to sex were sleeping with small penis guys who didn’t know what they were doing. Give her a hung dude who knows how to use it and I bet she would love it. Man with small penises are useless in today’s society, just outcasts hiding in the deep craves-es of the world waiting to die...no matter what we do or who we are were always going to have that useless little penis...signYears ago there was no sex before marriage divorce was a sin and even talking about sex was wrong so a women didn't know if small was good or bad .. but now we live in a highly sexual media lead world where women are size queens I can't blame them they have had many lovers before even the age of 20 if a women gets a good stretching from a 10inch by 8inche like a plank of wood no women is gonna to settle for a 3inch super skinny penis she knows as soon as she has stopped laughing there is a line of guys willing to have sex with her sex anit about a women's job to just have kids anymore its about pleasure so sadly we as small have no bloody hope in life .... Women can text any guy and say wanna fuck? so she can pick who she wants and I don't believe I with my small penis can/have given any pleasure to a girl .. when a girl says to you are you in yet .just lick me out instead .. these are words that don't fill you with a lot of hope of finding a girlfriend .. a girl wants to a big penis for pleasure so no girl youth today will settle for anything smaller than 6 let's face the truth it doesn't matter what you look like or how amazing your personality any even fat ugly chicks can seem to date any slim big penis jerk drug dealer type ... I have been on dating sites with the girl has dont judge a book by its cover now these girls was stunning big not the best looking oil painting a few kids I gota drop my standards lol and the replies I got back have been nooo way your well ugly init .. well thanks for not judging a book by its cover there love .. wish I wasn't born living a whole life 60+years alone and dickless is worse than a prison sentence I'm not a killer or evil but it feels like I am being punished every day of my life ... Even the girl across the street from me we had a little thing going on when we was about 16 even she shouts out little dick ect .. while I'm helping my mother in with the shopping can you understand the god damn pain going though in I have to live though getting laughed at the butt of all jokes family friends thinking I am gay friends setting me up on blind dates what's the point in going know what's gonna happy I put a mask on and have a way with words and is goes amazing only to be laughed at as soon as she seems my penis .. I am scared of getting hurt again do I run away I have been out night clubbing and had hot drunk chicks come on to me and I know what's going happen I am a failure at making love as all I can do is poke at her hole lol I'm sure there is no pleasure for her and it only gets me down so friends think I am gay even told a few girls I was gay just to get them to leave me alone but that back fired ohhh come on it will be fun il be your 1st women ect and when I am drunk enough to go though with it out comes the penis in a darken side road and yep there's the laugher well might as well go hang myself you get to thinking as ny friends are out having one night stands making videos of it going dogging having girlfriends going on lads holidays sex is amazing its all around us but all I get is laughed at ... One of my friends is 6inches and pretty thick seen him in gym and he told me he gets laughed at so how the Hell on earth is a guy half his size going to find love this guy is stunning not in a gay way great job £60,000 per year own flat works out looks great and he can't find love his brother only 3 years younger than him is ugly bit fat doesn't work out hung like a donkey goes down town gets his penis out spins it around and has girls running up to him just because he's big if he did that if he was small he would get laughed at ad he is big he has girls running after him how can a player a cheat a jerk to his girlfriends get laid but a nice small guys gets laughed at gonna live in a cave I am Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 (edited) There is a Facebook page called "I fucking love science" that posted the study - over 4,000 comments and counting. Quite the issue. To be fair a lot comments were reassuring and haters just look like idiots. A very pretty girl that I know, a former coworker, told me that size does not matter to her, she does not care about looks at all only the emotional connection.I think newsgroups may write about topics in a sensationalizing manner just to draw attention to their publications. It would be nice to see some light given to positive kinds of stories that might help to offer people hope.Have you thought about asking your former co-worker out? Maybe a place to start?I think it is courageous to live life. I hope you find happiness and inner serenity, VBNC. Take care.Newguy, I'm sorry you're feeling discouraged. What aspects of yourself do you like? Edited April 10, 2013 by IrmaJean wording Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perseverance Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 I think it's silly you guys think its impossible to me a nice girl. They're out there an a good relationship can be had. Put yourself in the best situation to find a good one. Jesus Christ do you people have any hobbies or interests? Find someone who loves what you love. Start there. Then when it comes time be honest with her about yourself. Lay it all out there. Man the fuck up. Women on her do you agree? Man standing up for himself and letting you know what's up and how he feels. If this isn't good enough for you than you can move on. I could see someone women loving that. I know some guys who are complete scumbag losers. Guess what there's too many of them and don't think females aren't like that either. They're fucking losers. We want to be accepted in society well take it. Fuck em. You know I'd love to have a bigger penis. It would change my life. I'm sure my GF would like it more or maybe not i really don't even know anymore. But sucks. We're beat. Can't have it. Reading these posts burns me up. I hate seeing you guys so fucking miserable. I know exactly the hell you're going through. I'm just done. I'm done being depressed. I have one life and I'm going to go down fists swinging. Fuck these whores who put us down. Fuck these guys making little dick jokes. Fuck media. Fuck them all. Why do groups have discriminatory laws for forbidding to treat people a certain way and not us? You guys on here are flirting with suicide daily. It's bullshit. You want people to continue to treat us sub human than fine. Do nothing. Quit. Or get out there. Stand up for yourself. I'm not letting one word get by me without a comment. Get it through these people's thick stupid fucking heads its not ok to go around putting people down. The shit people say has been holding you guys back. Ugh I'm just so god damn aggravated. Don't hold yourself back. Good women are out there. We have no choice but to be open to new things even if it means sex toys. I get down still but I feel like I need a good smack in the face to get my shit straight. Jessie, Bundy, CantGiveItAway and 2 others 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bundy Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 good post PerseveranceOh, and a funny article about the "I fucking love science group" on facebook; http://thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=youre_not_a_nerdtl;dr; The people in it are fucking morons. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newguy Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 when you have been laughed at sooo many times its a bit hard to come out and say yeah Iv got a small dick .. but I like your style think I need to start being more forward with it .. as its hard dating someone then she just walking away because I'm small like you said coming out from the start is easier than letting it get to serious and end messy better off letting her just walk away there and then well might be lucky might find a girl that wouldn't bat an eye lid .. will have to do that shit load better getting into bed and being laughed at I can tell you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cece.dedesl Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 Great post P! Fuck these people who are so shallow and media influenced. Penises are beautiful, they give life, bring pleasure and should be respected no matter how big they are! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siddiqui Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 I was just having one of my worst days and I came across this and now I just feel downright trampled upon. Very hurt. I'm going to go drink.ps: I have never drank before in my life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siddiqui Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 Hey Death - I totally get it, I have been there, many times crying into my hands and hating myself because i was too much of a pussy to even attempt suicide.I am not going to give any horse shit condescending advise but do pray you allow yourself happiness.I feel just like you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted April 10, 2013 Report Share Posted April 10, 2013 What part of the situation will be improved by alcohol? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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