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'Imagine having an arranged marriage and then finding out he has a small dick and being stuck with it forever'

"He was so caring but.... small dick? Out of here."

'How you gon have all that pride but a small dick?? "

'worst is when a guy w a small dick KNOWS his dick is small but lets u waste ur time getting to know them anyway smfh "

'It reminds me of a dude I went to high school with that was really cool and funny and friends with everyone…but he had a small dick soooooo "

'Quote of the day 'he wasn't really worth it anyway because he has a small dick'"

"I can't believe this guy has the audacity to have no money AND a small dick. I'm so offended."

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Holy crap!! written by a woman, a feminist no less.

Stop The Small Dick Shaming

 

This is giving a lot of women (mostly young girls on tumblr who have insanely easy access to porn) really skewed ideas of what a man's average dick size should be. Despite the above study where it shows most women are happy with their partner's size, men are insecure about their size. Why is that? Possibly because of commercial after commercial advertising products for a bigger cock because that's what women want. Possibly because women read bullshit articles in Cosmo about the "Mystery orgasm" that the MAN is denying them (because the pressure is always put on the man). Possibly the thousands upon thousands of small dick jokes on TV shows, in movies, and all over the internet. There is no lacking of this content and it's pretty in your face day after day after day. Even condom commercials are now more geared towards women all about HER pleasure and how great it will feel for HER. Honestly, the world is centered around catering to women when it comes to sex not men. If anyone wants to tell me men do not have really high standards to face in bed they are idiots.

Women these days are constantly told there is nothing wrong with them. That they are beautiful no matter what. No matter their size, shape, color, height, whatever the fuck there's a constant message going out there about how EVERY WOMAN IS BEAUTIFUL AND NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU. When a woman questions her beauty/size it's not HER problem, it's society that made her feel that way. Men have no recourse at all. There aren't beauty campaigns for men, there are barely any resources for men. Men are less likely to be diagnosed with eating disorders because it's seen as a woman's only issue. Men are constantly bombarded with how they are not good enough around every corner and yet, you don't hear much complaint about it. Either because (sadly) men know it's useless to complain, or they are so fucking used to taking this shit from women they have accepted it as the norm.

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I'm likely the most ardent supporter of feminism on this forum, but even I will admit that feminism does have an intersectionality problem when it comes to men's issues. It's not all feminists, or even most, I'd humbly fathom it's somewhere around 30% of women who are feminists purely for self gain and have no consideration for others(at least that many men are similarly self-centered, for reference) and are only intersectionally considerate to other oppressed groups out of guilty obligation. In a patriarchal society, it's easy to forget that the patriarchy hurts women AND men, and that mocking Donald Trump or other loathsome men for having small penises only further cements the patriarchal crap feminism aims to dismantle. Feminism isn't the problem, just like Islam isn't the problem, it's people who use a cause to further their own selfish and destructive bullshit.

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Dec 3, 2015 1:40pm
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If it weren’t for my boyfriend’s incredible dick, we wouldn’t even be dating right now. I’m addicted to that perfect penis. I swear the reason we became exclusive was because he threatened to take the dick away. Now we’re in love or whatever.

I can always count on my friend Ari for brutally honest statements, even when totally unsolicited.

The good dick is something none of us want to talk about. I suppose it’s because we don’t want to admit that something so uncontrollable can play a huge role in our relationships. But one day, as I sat picking at my side of brussel sprouts, I started thinking about that good D.

I remembered a story my sister told me about her most recent boo thang. She humored me by telling me about his disappointing dick size — his shortcoming, if you will — and when I asked her if this was a deal breaker, she simply said, “Well, it’s not the dick I’m going to marry.”

The question burned in the back of my mind: Would a woman stay in a relationship longer if there were a fantastic, godly penis involved? How important is a good dick in a good relationship?

At some point in our lives, we all have “love at first dick.” The dick that got away. The goddamn unicorn dick. The magical D that delivered orgasms from straight penetration.

And once you’ve seen a dick like that — that literally makes you open-mouth gasp — you are constantly on a search for that dick. You compare everything to that first special dick.

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I’m sorry if this sounds superficial, but sometimes you just need a good dick. It’s important. Sometimes all that vibrator action just isn’t going to do it for you. It isn’t going to get you there. You need a good old dicking. And that’s okay. That is life.

I have a confession to make: I always go for a hand job on the first or second date. Why? Because I want to see what I’m in for. If there isn’t good dick, what’s the point of living?

To see if I was alone here, I conducted an informal survey. I asked dozens of women how they feel about dick size. Almost half of them said they’d dump a guy with a small penis, and a few of them even said a small penis was their biggest turn-off.

I feel you, ladies. Hardcore.

We all know dick size is important when it comes to dating. We just aren’t saying it.

Anyone who says dick size doesn’t matter is a liar.  Every woman I surveyed said that sex was fairly to extremely important in a relationship. “I didn’t even realize how important the dick was to me until I took this survey,” one of our staff writers told me.

According to a LiveScience article that reports on a study from The Journal Of Sexual Medicine, women who have “frequent vaginal orgasms are more likely than other women to say they climax more easily with men with larger penises. Women who tend to prefer penile-vaginal intercourse over other types of sex also say the same.”

Essentially, women who are getting off are saying that they appreciate a good dick.

The article also acknowledges that penis size elicits as much anxiety for men as intelligence, looks and personality traits.

You can teach the motion of the ocean, but you unfortunately cannot grow a dick.

A quarter of the women I talked to said dick size was more important than sexual skill, and a little over a third said that a man’s size and skill are equally important.

And while I’d certainly agree that a man with a big dick and no clue how to use it is a waste of a great penis, you can teach well-endowed people a few tricks to utilize their God-given pecker.

When it comes to a pinky dick, however, you can only put so many pillows under your ass before you’re ready to give up and get back on Tinder.

Sometimes you just want to get filled, you know?

Size matters, but one dick doesn’t fit all.

The national average dick size is about 5.6 inches. When was the last time you met a woman who was down with a 5-and-a-half-inch wiener?

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When it comes to dick size, it’s true that bigger will always reign supreme. Even if a guy doesn’t know what the f*ck he’s doing with a big penis, you can take the lead and work around his juvenile bedroom fodder.

With a smaller dick, there isn’t a lot of wiggle room (pun intended). You have to bank on his mouth. Even so, are you going to spend your life with a man with a small penis? Answer that question.

Fortunately, what’s important for most women about dick size isn’t length — it’s girth, according to Live Science:

A penis with larger girth brings the clitoris closer to the vagina during sex, which has been suggested to help with achieving orgasm.

Now, it might seem like there’s some standard perfect length and thickness of a good dick. But a good dick is truly subjective from lady to lady. You have to find the perfect dick for you. One woman’s python is another woman’s preference. The thick-dicked man of one woman’s dreams is another woman’s nightmare.

There is such a thing as TOO BIG, and that isn’t a good penis. No one wants to limp the next day because the sheer sight of a man’s enormous schlong caused her vagina to dry up faster than the Sahara Desert.

Ideal length and thickness also varies depending on the situation. LiveScience suggests that women prefer penises with bigger girths for one-night stands but slightly smaller girths for long-term relationships.

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"I asked dozens of women how they feel about dick size. Almost half of them said they’d dump a guy with a small penis, and a few of them even said a small penis was their biggest turn-off."

Which echoes what women have said throughout my entire life. :(

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Womens views, eh? So anyone here seen the new C4 show called Naked Attraction?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5_lz2QbFUs (No worry, this is censored footage!!)

Hilarious stuff!! The first contestant said she doesn't like them too big because it's painful. Her final shortlist (haha) was an ordinary size guy and a bigger guy who also had a false leg. But she did pick the bigger one in the end though.

The second contestant had one really big black guy and she eliminated him first of all!! And she openly said it was because he was too big!!

He sounded confused, like 'huh, she saying it's too big??'

Bigger isn't always better, fellers. It really isn't.

 

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I'm not normally a fan of C4 but this Naked Attraction show is a hoot!

Honestly, any insecure peen who can access it might be wise to check it out?!

The last batch of guys on episode 2 all looked small to average. But they didn't get any negativity from the hottie picking them!! Maybe this thing about size doesn't matter is true after all??

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C'mon redux, no-one is going to be openly horrid or body shaming on national TV.

However one journalist said this:

"There was a lot of chat about all bodies being beautiful and people preferring different shapes and sizes but ultimately—on the first two run-throughs—it was the fat chick and the guy with the smallest cock who got turfed out first."

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1 hour ago, Jessie said:

no-one is going to be openly horrid or body shaming on national TV.

Seriously?? They are all the time!!

1 hour ago, Jessie said:

one journalist said this:

"There was a lot of chat about all bodies being beautiful and people preferring different shapes and sizes but ultimately—on the first two run-throughs—it was the fat chick and the guy with the smallest cock who got turfed out first."

I know this is wrong cos I watched the whole thing of both episodes.

Episode one, the first girl had the guy with the smallest cock among her last two options.

The second girl was bi. She did get rid of the fat chick first, but the second one to go was a hugh mungus sized African geezer. (And she said even he was too big!!)

Episode two, and all of the men to be picked were average-small btw

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I saw an episode 2 days ago and the smallest dick guys got eliminated straight away.

Both the final 2 men were the largest dicks (and most handsome to be fair).

 

And when it was the guy to do the choosing he was black and when he stripped off the 2 girls were delighted with his naked form- which , surprise surprise had a large dick.

 

oh and the female host tried repeatedly to prompt the girl into saying what she did and didnt like about the dicks but she was reluctant to explain in detail.

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On 7. August 2016 at 1:48 PM, Jessie said:

I saw an episode 2 days ago and the smallest dick guys got eliminated straight away.

Both the final 2 men were the largest dicks (and most handsome to be fair).

 What?! You talking about episode two, yeah?

The last two guys standing were not that big at all.

(The one picked as winner was hardly any bigger than I am, and I aint Mr Porno-Dingo!!)

On 7. August 2016 at 1:48 PM, Jessie said:

And when it was the guy to do the choosing he was black and when he stripped off the 2 girls were delighted with his naked form- which , surprise surprise had a large dick.

The club dj from episode two, yeah?

C'mon, his peen wasn't any bigger than average for a black guy. He was tall and in good gym shape shape though.

On 7. August 2016 at 1:48 PM, Jessie said:

oh and the female host tried repeatedly to prompt the girl into saying what she did and didnt like about the dicks but she was reluctant to explain in detail.

There has been tons of explicit talk so far about length, girth, ball size, ball sacks, pube hair, what the girls like, what they prefer, etcetera.

Seriously, if it's all still on their website you need to watch them through again Jessie babes!!

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There is a show here in the US called Naked Dating. They fuzz out all the wee wees and woo woos but do show butts but only briefly.  Some girls do comment on penis size but honestly those guys are often not selected for a second dates.  I think well hung guys a lot of times don't put much effort into the date, they don't try to "get to know the girl" or whatever, figuring their body should be enough to seal the deal.  

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redux (babes?)

the black guy was pretty big flaccid and much larger than anyone else in that episode.

the guys were all bigger than me apart from the other tall back guy who seemed very small- and got dismissed obviously.

there may have been explicit talk in previous episodes - i can only comment on the one I saw, where the girl was reticent despite the hosts attempts to talk 'cock'.

I can't be bothered to see the old episodes - if I happen to see the next episodes then so be it- I spend my time indoors.

As to relative sizes …. I guess its subjective so ….we must agree to differ

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2 minutes ago, Victimorthecrime said:

There is a show here in the US called Naked Dating. They fuzz out all the wee wees and woo woos but do show butts but only briefly.  Some girls do comment on penis size but honestly those guys are often not selected for a second dates.  I think well hung guys a lot of times don't put much effort into the date, they don't try to "get to know the girl" or whatever, figuring their body should be enough to seal the deal.  

Yeah.

But with this Naked attraction show it says the people doing the picking have stated preferences ahead of times. It's pretty clear that the first girl of all was a bit of a size queen (for girth at least.) The second and third girls they've had so far seemed to prefer small or average. 

The logical next step is a show featuring erections to weed out the showers from the growers!!

Heaven alone only knows where they find the volunteers.

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Size matters, but one dick doesn’t fit all.

The national average dick size is about 5.6 inches. When was the last time you met a woman who was down with a 5-and-a-half-inch wiener?

If that was true, then women in the world have a big problem, because 60% of men are under that. 

This "talks" aren't feminist, there is nothing less feminist than penis veneration and considering that women pleasure relays mostly on "masculinity", objectization of sex, unflexible gender models, etc.

Al this speech only wants to destroy all men that are not the stereotype of macho, and make women dependent of this stereotype, they will inmediately surrender to a man with a big tool and venerate him... well, we see this in porn every day, don't we?

 

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10 minutes ago, Redux said:

Yeah.

But with this Naked attraction show it says the people doing the picking have stated preferences ahead of times. It's pretty clear that the first girl of all was a bit of a size queen (for girth at least.) The second and third girls they've had so far seemed to prefer small or average. 

The logical next step is a show featuring erections to weed out the showers from the growers!!

Heaven alone only knows where they find the volunteers.

I think the show we get is a watered down version of yours.  

The girls are supposedly there looking for true love so maybe they are reluctant to appear overly horny or penis centric.  To be fair there was one couple that got married. 

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