females views etc (Trigger Warning!)

[Shrimp Fried Life]

7% of the women surveyed said their boyfriend has a small dick. That means 93% of the women do NOT have a boyfriend with a small dick. Logically there are only 2 possibilities: 1) pure happenstance in this particular survey or 2) the vast majority of women do not want a small dick. Just sayin...

Or a good portion just don't THINK what their man has is "small"

[Jessie]

Good link lifelong but it does show only 7% of females list their partner size as "Small". I will leave you to draw your own conclusion as to why that is.

16% of men are statically small.

many of these dont have partners so it makes sense that only 7% of women think their man is small.

this matches the UCLA study of 6%

Plus many women simply dont want to admit to themselves or to a surveyor that their partner is small- it ruins their self image

[Jessie]

http://www.medicalda...-context-351034

Here's another study just came out.

There is something wrong with the article.

It is only half right- it contradicts the stuff that was written when the data was 1st published.

1st of all a difference from 6.3 to 6.4 in length is marginal- its not even worth reporting as a significant trend.

(bear in mind this is for non bone pressed so either for long term or one night stands the womens 'average ideal' is about 7-7.5 for bone pressed length.)

But the far more critical factor is width and this is where it makes even less sense,

The big headline was that for one night stands women preferred 'significantly thicker than average'

so that would 5.2 - 6 for girth. (as the average is 4.9/5.0)

Yet the articled said 4.8!!!!! which is thinner than average.

So something is wrong somewhere- the article is recent so perhaps the author will revise the figures or realise an error somewhere.

[Shrimp Fried Life]

I wonder why some guys place so much importance on statistics, polls, surveys and studies.

None of it amounts to anything in my opinion.

[Victimorthecrime]

Or a good portion just don't THINK what their man has is "small"

You're right that that is another possibility and frankly one I didn't think of but I just don't subscribe to the theory that women are generally under some mass delusion regarding size or lack the ability to discern big vs small vs average. Especially these days where young women count their lovers by the dozen, receive dick pics, talk about sex openly w girlfriends etc, I can't see the argument they are size clueless.

[robert]

Sigh....... I haven't been here in a while (Took A Break) and behold things haven't changed.....I Guess I'll descend back into my dark abyss. Sigh...... More bad news.....i was really hoping that when i took a break at least when i come back one of you guys would have Good News.......well.......back to my miserable existence......i guess?

[Victimorthecrime]

Believe it or not Skynight I had that exact same thought when reading the article.

If they had written that 30 years ago, maybe there would be some truth but these days I think men are actually more subject to body shaming.

Cosmopolitan is a magazine whose heyday was the 1970s and was a vehicle for über feminist founder Helen Gurley Brown to preach her bizarre gospel of at once disdaining men and yet sleeping w hundreds of them and calling that an accomplishment for young women.

[Victimorthecrime]

robert - good to see you back. How are things?

[Shrimp Fried Life]

Here's some "comedy" for you. Should make you feel good.

[Jessie]

meh- I posted this video a year ago or so

It went viral in my office (this was when i was still employed)

[Shrimp Fried Life]

Yeah I thought you might have. I can't keep track of all these vids. I did enjoy the comments section. Guys tearing her a new one. LOL

[robert]

robert - good to see you back. How are things?

ok... I guess? I can honestly say that i've accepted my small penis. Even though it still sucks.I'm still depressed though but thats to be expected. I often wonder how men in ancient times dealt with having a small penis. evidently they must have had sex and procreated. because their small penis genes are still around today. Meh... that couldn't be true because my dads penis is well above average In length & girth (saw it on accident) LOL!!! it makes me wonder now. is he my real dad?

[Shrimp Fried Life]

I don't think penis size is genetic.

[Victimorthecrime]

ok... I guess? I can honestly say that i've accepted my small penis. Even though it still sucks.I'm still depressed though but thats to be expected.

Acceptance is huge in life. Some people see it as a negative as in "accepting defeat" but I see accepting reality as the definition of success because it frees you up to work on the things you actually can impact. For example a lot of guys are depressed in college because they are not getting girls and it shuts them down but the ones that think "to hell w these people" and focus on grades well they just might me swimming in it in a few years.

In high school and college we were taught that genes govern all physical characteristics. We all carry genetic material not just of our parents but of our grandparents, great grandparents, etc. Children are mostly likely to inherit their parents genetic characteristics but sometime two people w dark brown hair can mate and if great grandma had read hair - out pops a ginger. Or a small penis.

Sexual characteristics such as penis size can also be influenced by environmental factors that stimulate estrogen production in males. Certain plastics, certain drugs like Ritalin and Adderall also and have spurred lawsuits.

[robert]

Acceptance is huge in life. Some people see it as a negative as in "accepting defeat" but I see accepting reality as the definition of success because it frees you up to work on the things you actually can impact. For example a lot of guys are depressed in college because they are not getting girls and it shuts them down but the ones that think "to hell w these people" and focus on grades well they just might me swimming in it in a few years.

In high school and college we were taught that genes govern all physical characteristics. We all carry genetic material not just of our parents but of our grandparents, great grandparents, etc. Children are mostly likely to inherit their parents genetic characteristics but sometime two people w dark brown hair can mate and if great grandma had read hair - out pops a ginger. Or a small penis.

Sexual characteristics such as penis size can also be influenced by environmental factors that stimulate estrogen production in males. Certain plastics, certain drugs like Ritalin and Adderall also and have spurred lawsuits.

Yeah you give good points. I just hate the bitterness, lonliness so since I have a small penis I hope I die young because I'd rather not go through the pain of growing older. I'd love to die at the age of 40 maybe 35 by then im pretty sure my fate would be sealed for a life of shame and lonliness. Its so f***** unfair that guys like us don't get to enjoy sex in the prime of their youth Like others do. I have to be honest over the last past weeks while on my hiatus I bought a gun a 45acp specifically for suicide a sat on my couch mentally hurt putting the gun to my head then taking it away trying to build up my courage to pull the trigger but I couldnt because I know my mother needs me right now but when she ever dies then im gone. Luckily for me my brother took my gun....the bullets too. How did I ever get to this point? On top of that im dealing with a porn addiction.

[Victimorthecrime]

Sorry to hear this Robert it sounds like you are really going through it. I hope you find your way out of it in your own way.

[robert]

Sorry to hear this Robert it sounds like you are really going through it. I hope you find your way out of it in your own way.

Thanks man thats why I keep coming back to this forum even though sps sucks its not all bad when you know you're not alone. I just hate being alone when I'm alone my mind switches to deep depression mode and all the insecurities I have about sps eats away at my sanity. Wisdom ive learn learned from this is human beings weren't meant to be alone and a man shouldn't be left alone with just his mind. I wish I was as strong as you. How do you cope with sps? I really admire your strength.how do you not let it bother you?

[Victimorthecrime]

Oh geez robert I appreciate the compliment but I will be the first to admit there are no easy answers. I am quite a but older than you so sex is not the big issue it used to be, I have bigger problems. That said, I certainly have my low moments stemming from just not having much in the way of fun and/or companionship. When I am alone I try to either enjoy a rest or get some things done.

Are you in college? I think you made some reference to school. Try to set yourself up for a good job is my best advice. Try to find other interests like fitness or nature and regarding girls sometimes it's best to forget sex and just be friendly and see what happens. Don't be so hard on yourself - you didn't invent the world.

[robert]

Oh geez robert I appreciate the compliment but I will be the first to admit there are no easy answers. I am quite a but older than you so sex is not the big issue it used to be, I have bigger problems. That said, I certainly have my low moments stemming from just not having much in the way of fun and/or companionship. When I am alone I try to either enjoy a rest or get some things done.

Are you in college? I think you made some reference to school. Try to set yourself up for a good job is my best advice. Try to find other interests like fitness or nature and regarding girls sometimes it's best to forget sex and just be friendly and see what happens. Don't be so hard on yourself - you didn't invent the world.

No, im not in college for obvious reasons the whole college atmosphere seems no different than high school which was an horrible experience for me socially & mentally. I love music and it keeps me sane a lot of the times it has cheered me up and has kept me from going over the edge. I play the piano and guitar I kind of want to be a musician. I sort of lost my way on how to play them depression just sucks the life out of you. I just can't cope with being alone my mind just goes crazy when I have no human contact.

[Jessie]

QuestionIf you're a black man who doesn't have the "BBC" and you prefer white women, how should you go about letting them know what's going on down there? Especially, if you're inexperienced as well?Answer

Easy, get a little hand job action under a table of in a car or something. That way you don’t have to discuss it but still can introduce her to your penis before the actual sex. Don’t stress though man. Men do not seem to get that a penis has to be really tiny to be too small and very few girls like massive cocks, it hurts when its too big. Average is the best, but even if the penis is on the small side I can still get off really good. Doesn’t change much. It has to be a teeny tiny little penis to actually pose a problem.

[Jessie]

QuestionI was apart of a weird and uncomfortable conversation with my sister, her gay friend, and her 3 girlfriend about sex. When it came 2 penis size I was shocked 2 hear that all of them would prefer a penis that was too small 2 one that was too big. The main reason was because of blowjobs. I've seen scenes where girls are sucking off Lex or Shane so I wouldn't think that would be a problem. Does that surprise you? BTW, they consider under 6in 2 be too small which didn't shock me LOL. Love your work!Answer

I disagree I’d rather have too big than too small and actually the blow job part of penis that is too large isn’t the problem.I like big penis blow jobs, Its the actual sex. Vaginas are very sensitive, if its too big like that it REALLY HURTS!

[Jessie]

Anonymous Asked

QuestionHi Jodi, im curious does penis size matter at all? is length or width more important? and would you consider a 6.5 inch dick small? btw this is when its hard of course. Answer

Not at all! That’s actually a very nice sized dick. I consider 3 or 4 inch to be small. Width is more important, but it does need to be at least 5 inch.

[Jessie]

Anonymous Asked

QuestionDoes size matter to you?Answer

Yes because I get my orgasms from penetration. So it can’t be too small but if its too big it hurts. Which is also not fun. Guys don’t realize though that it has be abnormally small to be too small, it really doesn’t take that much.

[Jessie]

QuestionWhat size is your favourite?Answer

The length really doesn’t matter as long as its not too short. Which I’ve yet to encounter in my life. It’s about the width of the head for me. I love thick heads on a dick. Fun to play with and it puts pressure on the entrance. When I’m really turned on the pressure there is amazing. Fuck now I’m turned on.

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[Jessie]

QuestionMen are always worried about penis size, so much so, that they put forth the question to pornstars often. I have seen many youtube videos where some pornstars say that size doesn't matter while some say it does. Would it matter to you off-screen ?Answer

Men are obsessed with penis size. It’s really annoying. All women orgasm differently. For me personally, my orgasm spot is on the bottom, at the entrance of the vagina, so all it has to do it hit that spot. If I’m turned enough, it doesn’t even have to do that.