females views etc (Trigger Warning!)

[Jessie]

I have posted no less than 6 quotes about size.

The answers were from female respondents and as you can see they vary in opinion quite a bit.

there is a gold star for anyone who can find the cryptic link between all these quotes.

[Jessie]

"Well, if it’s too big. What a lot of guys don’t realize is that it hurts. Your vagina is designed to fit a six-and-a-half inch dick in it. Anything beyond that is poking your cervix and it hurts. So, I’m going to say my favourite size is between six to seven inches."

And a bonus point for the link with this one….

[Shrimp Fried Life]

An old cigarette ad. Probably from the 60's by the look of it. Just shows how long this shit has been going on.

[whatever]

My gf thinks my penis is like one from porn videos while it is just between 15, 16 cm. She see it like 5cm+ longer lol. So i guess she can talk around with her girl friends how she is fucking big penis.

Women opinion doesnt mean much guys. I heard somewhere they dont think the same way we do in term of time and space. Hence why they are generally bad at math, physic..

[Victimorthecrime]

http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/are-you-small-enough

This link came in my FB feed and I thought made some good points.

[Victimorthecrime]

Oh yeah, stipulate to that. Just referencing the size component. I am so used to the inherent male bashing that I reflexively overlook it.

[Jessie]

Anonymous

a day ago

Help! Mr Wonderful with nothing down there! Does size matter??

Ok ladies i desperately need other women's opinions! Im too embarrassed to ask those i know!

Long story cut short..... met a guy when I was 18. Brief fling with no sex involved (i was a good girl) i ended up meeting someone else and never saw him or thought of him again.

Fast forward 16 years and i now have 3 kids and are separated and i run into him at my childrens school.... his kids also go there.

I really didnt think much of it apart from that he was still good looking lol he was also separated with 3 kids (who are all friends with my kids and are great kids) .

I would see him sometimes and say hello and bye thats pretty much it.

Then this year he brings his sons to my sons sports club so we see each otber weekly. He became very chatty and would always come and talk to me (much to the digust of his girlfriend)

Oh i forgot to mention that he knew my ex partner quite well.

My ex passed away recently. And from that moment he has not left me alone.

I have been single for 8 years after a really awful relationship with my ex.

So this is all weird to me!

He has moved out from the girlfriend's place because i told him I would never consider anything whilst he was with her.

He said their relationship was dead anyway and that from the moment he saw me at the kids school, he hasnt stopped thinking about me (3 years ago)

But he never did anything about it oit of respect for my ex and he didn't know what our situation was.

He is lovely. Works hard. Is a wonderful dad.

Anyway heres the problem and please dont judge me i really need advise!

Its early days.... we had our first sexual encounter...... biggest fucking let down

Dont get me wrong he tried lol is great with his hands and a fabulous kisser.... vut he literally has a 4 inch dick... erect!

Thats it! It fits in the palm of my hand.

I have nothing to work with!

Im gutted! He is fabulous in every other way!

Am i shallow? Please realise im not exaggerating. Its 4 inches!

I know my needs! And its not gonna cut it.

I don't want to hurt him obviously.

He is convinced that the man upstairs has bought us back together lol he is very sweet.

I just dont know if i should cut and run now after he ditched the girlfriend and all..... or should I see how it goes ? Lol

Please dont suggest toys! I need the real deal! And i have never ever seen one quite this small!

I know i sound like an asshole.....he is ready to commit and be together for ever... he said this is it for him.

I don't take relationships lightly.... have never had another man around my kids.

Any suggestions ?? Please

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ComAnonymous

a day ago

hahaha, sorry, but i know the feeling it sucks, but someone has to take the less endowed :/ I found that the problem with most guys with less than average feel they have something to prove and try to make it rough in hope that it will feel a bit more like a bigger penis. This is the WORST! If most women can orgasm from one finger inserted then a 4 inch penis can meet your needs. Get him to go slow, real slow, so that you feel every last ripple of his penis, so that you dont get too wet before you come, or if you do, wipe the excess away with a towel. Other than this i have no other advice good luck mumma

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Anonymous

about 20 hours ago

I totally understand that awful disappointment of thinking someone is great and then the sexual side being a let down.

When I met my ex husband he swept me off my feet, was very romantic and thoughtful, I thought he was the man of my dreams! Then we had sex. He was 3 inches erect. I could barely tell if he was in

It was absolutely awful to be honest and I beat myself up SO much about feeling shallow because I was doubting this man over the size of his dick. My last partner had been much bigger than average and I guess that was what I liked.

I decided to give it a go anyway because I liked him. I decided I could take the lead in bed and we could do other things to make up for size. Thing is, he also wasn't a good kisser, he couldn't find my clitoris, he didn't listen when I showed him where it was, and he ignored the things I told him I liked doing. So sex became awful. There were other things I wasn't sure about too by this stage. But I can tell you for sure I ignored all those because I felt so guilty about being so shallow, and getting caught up over his lack of sexual prowess. He was still sweeping me off my feet and being amazingly romantic, and I kept thinking he was this PERFECT man if only it wasn't for his penis

To be honest I think you may be doing something similar here. A few things about this mans behavior raises red flags for me. He stayed with his ex despite wanting to be with you, he started to lay the groundwork with you while still with her, he is going overboard with the declarations about the rest of your life together (ok I know we all like the idea of an amazingly romantic man but in reality when they go totally over the top with it, it is creepy as hell). If you are feeling guilty about what this man has apparently given up for you, and using that as a reason to stay, you may want to rethink. Relationships are about being together because you want to, not because you are beholden to each other. I ignored this piece advice so badly that I went and married an idiot because I felt I was being shallow if I dumped him. That was 7 years of rubbish sex I can never get back!

When it comes down just to the sex, there are loads of things you can do. you can even get sheath type things to slide over him and make him bigger for you, positions such as Wife of Indra that ensure deep penetration, and also it depends how in tune he is to your wants and needs aside from penetration. But if there is no connection and you don't feel that its going to make you happy, don't get into a more serious relationship!

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Anonymous

about 14 hours ago

I once dated a man with a small penis. Truthfully, I almost ended it then and there when I discovered his size!

We dated for 10 months.

When I started dating my current partner and discovered his size - my first thought was oh my god! I'm in love with his penis! I have to marry this man!

We've been together five years.

The ex - he made up for his size. He was good with his tongue so it didn't matter to me at the time. My current partner. He's brilliant in EVERY way.

I'll never go back to a small one.

My advice: it's obviously an issue to you. End it now.

[Wutty3]

Who says love conquers all. What a bunch of horse shit. I can't wait until those lifelike sexbots become more realistic and more affordable. Then all these women will start bitching and wondering why they're not getting ANY dick at all. .

[Victimorthecrime]

Would sex bots cause a population decline or would they serve to redirect psycho killers to a safe outlet? I wish Apple would put one out.

[Resolute]

Would sex bots cause a population decline or would they serve to redirect psycho killers to a safe outlet? I wish Apple would put one out.

apple????!!!!! not you too victim. come to our side, and embrace windows.

[Resolute]

Would sex bots cause a population decline or would they serve to redirect psycho killers to a safe outlet? I wish Apple would put one out.

win win.

[Wutty3]

Yes...anything Apple makes is overpriced...I'll take the Microsoft version please Or better yet Linux...It's FREE!!!

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[Musekitty]

Im going to share my experience. I'm a 35 y old female. Throughout my active sex life, I had only encountered the average 5-6+ inch penis. It was a size I was used to, sex was always pleasurable, sometimes it could hurt, but nothing intolerable. Well, my current boyfriend is from my guess between 3.5 - to right under 4 inches AT BEST. I will say that the very first time we were intimate, I was surprised by the size. I actually thought in my head, is that it? BUT the experience was not bad at all and his foreplay was so incredible that I still enjoyed it. Now, after being intimate several more times and I got over that notion about size, the sex has been INCREDIBLE. There are factors here that make it incredible so let me explain. He knows he is small, but he never makes a big deal about it. His lack of insecurity is definitely noteworthy. He has incredible foreplay skills, I can often orgasm between 1-3 times before penetration. Lastly, his smaller size helps to hit my sweet spot directly and continously, whereas bigger sizes skim past and sometimes miss that spot or are unable to apply a direct hit of sorts. When my bf's hits that sweet spot, it will hit for the whole session which gives me leg quivering orgasms that I continue to think about at all day the next day. So in my opinion, 3 things have worked for me to learn that "size really doesn't matter" 1. Have confidence. 2. Excell in foreplay 3. Find the sweet spot and work it.

[Resolute]

welcome to the forum, kitty. i hope you stick around.

take care.

[TooOld4This]

Thank you for the reality check, Musekitty.

I think this particular discussion thread, and the many others that deal with the same topic,

have become little more than echo chambers of negativity:

"I hate my penis." "So do i." "My penis is shameful."

"The size of my penis must be a real problem; otherwise, why would so many guys be complaining about it?"

Well, for one thing, posters, you're only listening to other guys.

And to entertainment celebrities, most of whom:

(if male) refuse to have sex with any female more than 10 years out of puberty, or

(if female) refuse to have sex with anyone who isn't offering something of monetary value in exchange for sex.

What a pathetic group to use as your reference-point.

You've done all you can do, Musekitty. You can only tell people the truth.

Whether they believe it or not is up to them.

[Resolute]

Well, for one thing, posters, you're only listening to other guys.

And to entertainment celebrities, most of whom:

(if male) refuse to have sex with any female more than 10 years out of puberty, or

(if female) refuse to have sex with anyone who isn't offering something of monetary value in exchange for sex.

i must strongly disagree. many of these women have sex strictly for physical purposes (pleasure).

[Resolute]

they needn't have any other value beyond their sex appeal for them to be sexually fulfilling for some men.

[Musekitty]

Well I thought I would give my take on the small penis since this was my first and I was pleasantly surprised. So there is hope put there for you guys. My bf always says that he knows he has a small penis, but he's never had any complaints from women in the past and it hasn't stopped him from trying to date women before me.

[Victimorthecrime]

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[Resolute]

vic, don't tell me you got it too, man! this "post deleting" bug is spreading like wildfire. maybe we should get antigens from patient zero (klingsor).

[Victimorthecrime]

Agree but I just felt that I have beat this issue to death and just feel that unless I have a genuine insight or real chuckle maybe I should just zip it.

Pretty much everyone in the world has something they don't like about their body and nothing anyone says is likely to change it. If a guy is 5 feet tall and you tell him "that doesn't matter" you think it will change his mind? What about a bald guy? Same thing. If it bugs them it bugs them.

[Jessie]

Im going to share my experience. I'm a 35 y old female. Throughout my active sex life, I had only encountered the average 5-6+ inch penis. It was a size I was used to, sex was always pleasurable, sometimes it could hurt, but nothing intolerable. Well, my current boyfriend is from my guess between 3.5 - to right under 4 inches AT BEST. I will say that the very first time we were intimate, I was surprised by the size. I actually thought in my head, is that it? BUT the experience was not bad at all and his foreplay was so incredible that I still enjoyed it. Now, after being intimate several more times and I got over that notion about size, the sex has been INCREDIBLE. There are factors here that make it incredible so let me explain. He knows he is small, but he never makes a big deal about it. His lack of insecurity is definitely noteworthy. He has incredible foreplay skills, I can often orgasm between 1-3 times before penetration. Lastly, his smaller size helps to hit my sweet spot directly and continously, whereas bigger sizes skim past and sometimes miss that spot or are unable to apply a direct hit of sorts. When my bf's hits that sweet spot, it will hit for the whole session which gives me leg quivering orgasms that I continue to think about at all day the next day. So in my opinion, 3 things have worked for me to learn that "size really doesn't matter" 1. Have confidence. 2. Excell in foreplay 3. Find the sweet spot and work it.

thanks for this musekitty.

just to give some context and response:

- if you perceive your boyfriend to be be 3.5-4 inches he is likely to be nearly 5 inches (bone pressed) because of the fat pad.

- if however he really does have 3.5-4 he is just above micropenis.

If afraid to say that in my culture most girls would never 'get over the notion'.

I also suspect your guy has ok girth which helps a great deal.

But Im glad to hear reports of a woman who is willing to overlook the issue- however rare such women might be .

x

[Victimorthecrime]

http://www.mandatory.com/2015/10/27/what-women-want-in-a-penis-according-to-women-themselves/?ncid=txtlnkusaolp00002185

[notbad]

I think we need to understand what girls says, and be realisct . When a girl says ''I love a big penis'', she isn't saying ''I hate small penis''. But many guys here listen/read that and think ''girls hate small penis'' . Ok, I read few girls saying they hate small penis, but the majority of girls do NOT say this . The fact is, most girls like small, medium, big penis .

For example: If you ask me my favorite type of girl , I would say ''brunete, big breats''. But theres lots of girls with small breats (some of them, with very very small) that I prefer than brunetes with big breast. I will give examples with famous girls, so you can have an idea: If I could choose Scarlett Johansson or Kate Bosworth, Id prefer Kate. But my perfect girl would have big breasts and look at Scarlett !!! If I could choose Taylor Swift or Katy Perry, Id go with Taylor. And I like big breasts. Do you think Im lying ?!? Its true, the overall body/face/everything makes the diference, not only one or another thing .

So, when a girl that you are dating, says she prefer you, and your entire body, just the way you are, probably she is saying the truth. Why a girl would spend her time (even if its only one night, or one weekend) with someone she doens't like ? If she is with you, and say she likes you, damn god, trust her and be happy !!!!

--- youtube videos.

I never see a very beautiful girl saying in public ''I don't like small penis'' or "I dumped one guy because he had small penis'' . Always its average looking girls, and often ugly girls saying this . Why? Because this girls feels better showing ''hey, look at me. I dumped one guy''. While beautiful girls, dump guys everyday, for many diferent reasons. Also, this girls usually have a weak mindset, and go with the most obvious ''big is better''.

Also, how big ? many of this girls this 6inchs is big... Do you have any idea about how big is 4inch or 6inch ? If you are here, you probably measure a lot. Get your TV control, and try have an idea how many inches it is . Go for a walk, get a tree branch and try guess how many inches. You, who is a professional measure guy, will be wrong often. Now, imagine a girl, who don't have any experience measuring things, how she will know if its 4 or 5.5 inches? How she will know if its 5.5 or 7inch ?

Plus, its very easy to cheat while measure your penis . girl saying "I measure my boyfriend, its HUGE, its X inch'' . Its sooo easy to measure wrong and make it looks bigger... You have a dick and you measure, you know what Im talking about .

[51 Years of Misery]

Good Post.